Valentine’s Day is traditionally a day for couples to show their love for each other through romantic gestures on February 14th. However, the holiday has become more materialistic and people have forgotten its true purpose of spreading love. As I’ve grown throughout the years in college I’ve seen a change of heart from many other girls about what valentine’s should be like and what their expectations are. Your love for someone else is not measured through the next best gift, the gift you’ve been begging for, or the nicest Italian restaurant in town. Your love should be given and received every day of the year, through both small and big things with neither one dominating the other. The smallest things can mean the biggest difference, and I did not learn that from my college dating life but better yet from the closest friends I made while being on campus.
My friends are the people who have consistently stood by me and listened to my feelings when times get tough within my dating or personal life. Friends will always bring you up when you are feeling down and there should be a time where you are able to show your best friends the love and appreciation you have for them. I want Valentine’s Day to take a different approach, instead of looking for love from someone who should be providing it to you everyday of the year, bring yourself to give love to the people who have nonstop been by your side without you ever having to ask.
It can feel lonely when you’re starting a new life on campus; learning to do everything on your own, away from family and childhood friends where everything is different. The friends you make in college are going to be your forever friends and you’re all learning to be true adults together. Cherish the times you do have together and share your love this Galentine’s Day. Think small, intimate, but exciting. Have a picnic at your favorite outdoor spot, paint and sip in the comfort of your own home, or try a new brunch spot downtown (plus if it has bottomless (21+ girly’s)). Do what feels right and get everyone involved! Invite your closest friends, old friends, and even new ones to continue to build the bond of love within friendships.