It’s no secret that both men and women are liars when it comes down to the sheets. And in our culture, it’s very generalized that men lie more than women. It doesn’t really matter if this is true or not, HER CAMPUS UPR-RP has made a massive investigation questioning women all around campus about their not so true comments during intimacy with their partner. This article does not reflect any of our personal views nor experiences. We have seen the most recurrent ones and we have made a list about Top Women Lies during Sex!
- “Size does not matter.”
Apparently, the phrase “it’s not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean,” does not apply to every woman. Although this idea is relative, size tends to be directly proportional to the end result.
- “Personality is the most important thing.”
As if! When searching for a partner this can seem kind of important, but the truth is that if you don’t like the physical attribute of a person, sex can get, well, BORING!
- “It was great.”
Of course we don’t want our partner to know that their performance was not up to standards, it’s not our purpose to make them feel bad. But having open communication with your loved one can easily resolve this. Try saying things like “that was creative, but I think we should try something else.” Keep in mind that you are learning about your body and so is your partner. You will NOT see the fireworks every time you DO IT (at least for now).
- “I don’t get emotionally attached after sex.”
LIAR, LIAR, PANTS ON FIRE! Having a friend with benefits can seem fun at first, but girls can get easily involved in the process. Not saying that all girls do, some are less emotional about this and only focus on the physical attraction. Most likely, if you do it for 2 or 3 months, it will develop a “more than friends” feeling.
- “I don’t usually do these things, only with you.”
“I’m really inexperienced, and that makes me nervous around you.”
“You are the best sex that I’ve had.”
Ladies, if you don’t mean it, don’t say it! If you have a lot of experience, your partner will have to respect that. Don’t say things to make your partner feel special, they already are if you are sharing intimacy together.
- “My head hurts; maybe some other time.”
“I have to wake up early tomorrow.”
“I’m on my period.”
“I have to study for this BIG test…”
If you have to put these types of excuses often, then it’s a sign that things are not going well. Perhaps it’s time to move on. But if you are just not in the mood, then find a better excuse.
- “I’ve never faked an orgasm.”
AND THE OSCAR WINNER IS…It is proven and known that it is harder for women to have an orgasm than men. Most of them have just preferred to go the less honest way, acting it out.
- “I don’t think about anybody else, only you.”
We all fanaticize, both men and women! It’s nobody’s fault if you think once about somebody else, (which normally tends to be hot celebs and artists!) but if it becomes recurrent, thinking about somebody that you know, that is a BIG, RED WARNING that you are not in love with that person as you used to be.
- “I never masturbate.”
“The idea of sex toys makes me uncomfortable.”
We are all curious; don’t be ashamed if you do.
- “I’m a virgin.”
CLASSIC. Unfortunately, women have to deal with this social taboo. You are not less of a woman to your new man because you gave “your gift” away to somebody else. It is an expression and we are all free to use and it should not be a barrier in your new relationship.
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