The Single Lady’s Guide to Valentine’s Day

I’ll skip all the theatrics about how you’re an independent woman who doesn’t need a partner, because you know that. You’re awesome all by yourself, but when Valentine’s Day rolls around and you’re single, it can be tough to figure out what to do while your friends are out doing gross things like going on nature hikes or dipping fondue in a candle-lit restaurant. Her Campus UNCW holds your ultimate guide to having the perfect solo V-Day. 

Option #1: Grab a friend & take advantage of couples deals.

On Valentine’s Day, and usually the week before, a lot of places offer deals for couples. Call around your city to find great deals on couples’ massages, full-course dinners, and even adventure-y things like rock climbing or geocaching. Chances are, your friend has probably seen you in your undies at least once, and that’s totally enough of an intimate relationship to warrant a 2 for $20 deal at a cool, swanky restaurant. 

Option #2: Pamper Yo’Self

If going out on a faux V-Day date isn’t your thing, take another route and stay in for the night. Set yourself up with a luxurious bath bomb, like this super sexy one from LUSH, and sink into a bubble bath with your favorite tasty things (maybe not as fancy as Blair’s box of macarons, but if you can afford that…). Soak up for a bit, then get silky with an exfoliating routine followed by some extreme moisturizing. You can then retire to your comfy place for the night, wearing fuzzy socks and rubbing your extra-smooth legs together. Score. 

Option Three: Valentine’s Day? You Mean “Sunday”? 

If all else fails, there’s always the option to act like Valentine’s Day isn’t happening. Maybe you’re still sore over a recent breakup, or you just don’t like to celebrate the day of love, and that’s fine! However, that does mean staying off social media – no Twitter, definitely no Instagram, and absolutely no Snapchat for ANY reason. I think everyone has been guilty at least once of posting about a sweet gift they gave or received on Valentine’s Day, but it can get pretty annoying to click through a Snap Story of your friend following a trail of rose petals that leads to a room filled with heart balloons, one of those human-sized teddy bears, and her bf holding a giant bouquet of (overpriced) roses. Barf. 

Whether your single lady Valentine’s Day plans include your two best lovers (Ben and his BFF, Jerry), a group of girlfriends, or nobody but you, don’t fret. You have your whole life to find a Valentine–you only have the metabolism to eat an entire pint of Ben & Jerry’s in one night with no repercussions while you’re in college. Put on your eating pants. Embrace it.

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