“Me too.” Two powerful, contagious words spreading like wildfire. You can’t turn on a TV or read the news without the latest scandal dominating the conversation. Olympic Gold Medalist Aly Raisman was Accent Speaker Bureau’s latest inspirational voice. She reminded us all about the important conversations we need to be having about sexual abuse and women empowerment on campus — a topic that shouldn’t be hidden.
According to the National Sexual Violence Resource Center, one in five women will be raped at some point in their lives. That haunting statistic scares me, especially as a female college student.
“The fear that surrounds sexual abuse and harassment plagues us in ways men never even have to consider,” an anonymous female UF sophomore explained. She continued to unveil that what we wear, walking home alone, partying and more are all associated with that “what if” thought. What if our clothes are considered too revealing, and we’re “asking for it”; What if someone is lurking outside an apartment complex waiting for that one girl walking alone; What if our drinks are spiked?
After listening to Raisman speak, I had an eye-opening conversation with several friends who all said they suffer the same fears listed above. Everyone I have spoken with has also known someone who is a victim of sexual assault or has been a victim themselves.
Aly Raisman brought up an interesting point about false accusations and men’s concerns regarding wrongful conviction, a consideration male friends of mine have voiced as well. However, it is important to note that only 20 percent of college-aged female victims (18-24) report their assaults. This remarkably low number speaks volumes. Women are afraid to come forward, and, even with the impact of the “Me Too” movement, there is still an overwhelming amount of silence. That is why people like Aly Raisman must continue fighting; That is why articles like this and more need to be written; That is why even one person’s actions can help save a life. As Raisman said, “Every single person can make a difference. Don’t underestimate the power of being nice to someone.”
It’s important to note that this culture does not just apply to females: Men are victims as well and face an even bigger stigma when coming forward. Conversations need to be had and harsh realities need to be faced by colleges. The Hunting Ground documentary reveals the cover-up of college campuses across the country, attempting to silence victims. We must do more as a society and hold others accountable. When you see something, it is our moral obligation to say something.
“You’re never going to regret doing the right thing,” Aly Raisman said.