As many of us have heard before, college is an exciting time for growth, new experiences, and can be a refreshing new segment of your life. Of course everyone’s college experience is personal and unique, but as a third year, I thought that this would be a good time to share some of things that I wish I knew before coming into college. Here are a few of them:
Adjusting is a process
Alright, most of you probably already saw this one coming, but college can get challenging for a plethora of reasons. Not only is attending a new university already a bit intimidating, but there are other factors that come into play along with it, such as homesickness, deciding a major, making friends, and just figuring out “how to college.” When it comes to adjusting to the classes, college is a place where students learn how they learn best. Not everyone has the same thought process, therefore their methods of studying may be different from yours. Also, know that finding that balance is a process, and some may find it easier to do than others. But be patient with yourself, and know that you will get the hang of things because it just takes some time.
Get involved
What are your interests? Getting involved is one of the most important aspects of your college experience. Whether it’s through a club, organization(s), intramural sports, or volunteer experiences. These can be useful tools to figuring out not only what you are interested in, but can be a great way to meet people with the same values or interests as you.
No one really knows what they are doing
People are all on different paths of life, and it’s so easy get discouraged when we compare our success to others’ success. You are not them and they are not you. We all have different plans and ideas in our lives, and to be quite honest no one really knows what their future holds. Being present in the moment and working with what life has offered you is the best way to work towards where you want to go in life.
Your major does not define you or your future career
Whether you know exactly what career path you want to take or if you have absolutely no idea what you want to do, that’s okay. Your major will not determine your success in the future. Everyone’s path is different, and there are a growing number of careers that we may not even know about nor may even exist yet. Stick to a major that interests you, and you will thank yourself later.
Find those real friends, and hold onto them
Finding the right friends in college is one of the most important aspects of your college career. These people may be your roommate, on your floor, or from that new club you joined. Be authentically yourself with others and you will find your friends along the way. People that you can not only have a great time with, but will also support you in times of struggle are the friends that you want to hold onto. These are the people that are forming the kind of person you become, and are the ones that can change your life.
Don’ t be afraid to go solo
Being comfortable with being alone is just as important as making your friends. My freshman year, I found myself hesitant to attend concerts or events because none of my friends were going. This fear of going solo determined a lot of what I would or would not do. When I finally mustered up the courage to do things or go to events alone, I had a resurgence of confidence within myself that I had never experienced before. It allowed me to learn independence and taught me how to be comfortable with myself.
Getting out of your comfort zone can do wonders
Whether it is talking to your crush, taking those dance classes, or taking a course that has absolutely nothing to do with your major, but interests you. College is a great opportunity to learn, within and beyond the classrooms. So take it to your full advantage!
Visit your advisor and go to office hours
Visiting your advisor helps a ton when you are trying to figure out your major/classes. They will be there to guide you and let you know if you are on track. Also, most professors and TAs are there because they want to help you succeed! When going to a large university, building that personal relationship with your professors can be pretty difficult. Taking the time to introduce yourself or ask questions can help you gain a better grasp of the subject. Also, gaining those professional connections can be a source of a recommendation letter or may be a link to a future job someday.
Utilize the gym
If your gym is on campus and is already part of the tuition you are paying for, use it! Gym passes can be pretty pricey so might as well utilize your access to the gym when you can. Having a healthy mind and body can contribute to your success in college. Starting healthy habits around this age can make it easier for you implement a healthy lifestyle even after college.
Intern/Volunteer
It’s never too early to get that experience in, and college has a multitude of sources that can assist you in testing the waters. If something interests you, try it! Anything can be a stepping stone. Not only will these experiences be great for building your rèsumè, but can help you as you find the right career path. During these internship/volunteer opportunities, don’t be afraid to ask questions and be eager to learn– absorb everything like a sponge. They could be the ones to help you land a job one day!