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None of us ever want to lose a friend. However, sometimes it’s necessary to cut people out of your life, namely toxic friends. We have all been warned about significant others who are controlling, demeaning, and overall have a mentally damaging and negative effect on their SO. But a friend who acts in this way is incredibly serious as well.

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Some clues to discern that you might have toxic friend is if they:

  1. Try to control who you see and hang out with

  2. Blame you for their own failures/wrongdoings

  3. Aren’t happy for you when good things happen to you and get upset or jealous

  4. Guilt trip you into forgiving them or doing things you don’t want to do

  5. Gossip about your life to others

  6. Lie to you consistently

  7. Judge you for what you do or try to change you

  8. They only talk to you when they need something

 

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Sometimes you might think, “It’s less drama if I just stay friends with them”, or “I don’t want to not have any friends so I’ll stick with them”, but it’s ALWAYS worth it to cut out toxicity in your life. It’s so much better to have no friends than to have toxic friends. Having this negativity in your life also impacts your health and overall wellbeing, as well as closes you off to making real and good friends.

 

Ava Kargosha is a first year Psychology and Brain Sciences major at UCSB. She loves reading, writing, drinking Arnold Palmers, and frantically catching up on TV shows.
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