The Christmas season is full of fun, laughter, cozy moments, and happy memories. But it’s also a season of overconsumption. Almost everyone ends up with at least one gift they never use — something that gets tossed in a closet until months (or years) later, only to be thrown away. Here’s a quick guide on what to ask for this year, and what to steer clear of.
Do NOT Ask For:
- More décor
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Unless you’ve just moved, your apartment, dorm, or house is probably decorated enough. If you don’t even have space to appreciate the décor you already own, you likely don’t need more. Save that money for experiences or memories that feel more meaningful than another “Live Laugh Love” sign.
- New clothes
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Do not fall for 50%–70% off Black Friday emails or TikTok “must-haves.” If you already own a pair of light-wash jeans, you don’t need another pair just because an influencer said so. If you really want clothes, ask for a Visa gift card or cash and go thrifting. It’s more sustainable, more personal, and it gives you a fun day out with your friends — arguably more valuable than receiving clothes in a box.
- Backups of things you already own
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If your skin tint isn’t even close to empty, or you want the new “it-girl” mascara, don’t do it. You probably don’t have space in your makeup drawer anyway. Finishing what you already own feels way better than letting half-used products pile up.
Do Ask For:
- Hobby materials
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Books, a sewing machine, new markers, knitting supplies, film for your camera — these are gifts that bring real joy. Hobbies give you something meaningful to improve on, something that isn’t another hour in front of a screen, and help you invest in yourself and your skills. These gifts don’t just sit on a shelf; they help you make memories.
- An experience
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Ask for concert tickets, a pass to a sports game, a cooking class, a weekend trip, or even skydiving if you are feeling bold. Experiences stick with you way longer. They turn into inside jokes, photo dumps, and stories you will tell for years. Nothing beats the excitement of knowing you have something fun on the calendar. Honestly, asking for an experience is like gifting yourself future happiness and avoiding another item that collects dust.
At the end of the day, Christmas should feel fun, not stressful. When you ask for things that actually add something to your life, you get gifts you will use instead of gifts you will hide in a corner. Choosing hobby supplies or an experience you will remember keeps the holiday meaningful and way less chaotic.
Keep it simple, keep it intentional, and stay true to what you actually enjoy. Your future self, and your closet, will thank you.