Our twenties are such an iconic chapter. We’re meeting new people, stepping into our careers, and figuring out who we want to be. And somewhere along the way, we begin to discover our personal style.
But style isn’t just about clothes, shoes, jewelry, or hair. At its core, it’s self-expression. It’s the way you choose to present yourself to the world. The outfits you gravitate toward, the accessories you reach for, and even the posture you carry tell a story about who you are. For some people, personal style comes naturally. Others spend years experimenting before finding what feels right.
If you’re anything like me—a girly girl with a love for all things feminine, timeless, and chic—you’re in the right place. After experimenting with trends throughout my teens, I finally found a style that feels authentic to me. My inspiration comes from many places: Charlotte York from Sex and the City, with her polished Ralph Lauren wardrobe and elegant jewelry; Alexandra Saint Mleux, whose classy outfits turn every Formula 1 paddock into a runway; and, most importantly, my mom. She was my first fashion icon, and she taught me one lesson that has stayed with me ever since: carry yourself with class.
That simple piece of advice shaped the way I view fashion today. Over time, I realized my personal style mirrored hers in many ways. We both love delicate jewelry and classic pieces like sundresses, tailored blouses, and chic cardigans. But I didn’t embrace this style simply because it was hers. I embraced it because it felt like me. This type of style complemented my personality—warm, creative, soft-spoken, and expressive—while still giving me the freedom to experiment. That’s the beauty of personal style: it isn’t about following trends, but about wearing what feels authentic to you.
So, if your dream wardrobe consists of timeless staples, elegant silhouettes, and pieces worthy of a 2000s Vogue editorial, you’re in the right place. Here are my favorite tips for cultivating a chic aesthetic, and the confidence to match.
Less is always more: Choose one statement piece
This may be one of the oldest fashion rules in the book, but it’s a classic for a reason. “Less is more” doesn’t mean your outfits have to be boring; it means every outfit needs a focal point. Each morning, ask yourself: What’s the star of today’s look? Maybe it’s a pair of vintage jeans with unique detailing, a brightly colored handbag, or a statement shoe. Whatever it is, let that piece have its moment instead of making everything the statement piece. Bold prints, chunky jewelry, and dramatic makeup all competing for attention can make an outfit feel overwhelming rather than intentional.
The most stylish people understand balance. They know how to pair creativity with simplicity, which is why the most memorable looks aren’t always the loudest. A striking necklace feels more impactful with a simple dress, and a vibrant top stands out best when paired with classic denim. The chicest outfits leave room for one element to shine.
My mom is the perfect example of this. On any given day, she’ll wear a floral blouse paired with simple jeans or tailored khakis and her beloved heels. Yet what stands out most isn’t a piece she’s wearing, but the way she carries herself. She doesn’t rely on attention-grabbing details to make an impression. Her confidence and a few thoughtfully chosen pieces do all the work, making her look truly chic.
This philosophy is one of the reasons I gravitate towards colors that effortlessly complement one another. My closet is filled with neutrals, soft pinks, reds, and my personal favorite, blue. These shades can be matched with almost anything, from denim and classic skirts to tailored pants and cozy sweatpants. The same approach extends to my accessories. I wear the same necklace almost every day, one ring, a simple watch, and a few understated pairs of earrings. By keeping my jewelry minimal, the focus naturally shifts to the outfit itself. The result feels intentional and balanced rather than cluttered or over-styled.
Stop Buying More and Start Buying Better
One of the chicest things you can do is build a wardrobe slowly. Instead of constantly chasing trends, invest in pieces that fit beautifully and last. A closet full of clothes means very little if none of them last; a few quality pieces can become the foundation of your signature style.
Now, I’ll admit this advice is slightly hypocritical coming from me. Anyone who knows me will tell you that my closet is absolute chaos. My drawers are overflowing, and my dresses and sweaters are constantly competing for hanger space. However, the pieces I reach for most are never the impulse purchases or trend-driven buys collecting dust in the back of my closet. They’re the timeless, well-made staples that have earned a permanent place in my wardrobe.
Long before I understood the value of quality, my mom was quietly building my wardrobe with pieces that would actually last. Many of those items are still hanging in my closet and looking just as good as they did when I first got them. Because of her, I’ve learned that certain pieces are worth investing in.
Nothing beats a great pair of jeans, whether they’re Levi’s or a vintage find from a small boutique. When I want something polished, I often reach for pieces from Aritzia, Ralph Lauren, or Brandy Melville—versatile staples that can be styled again and again. For loungewear and lingerie, I’ve always loved Victoria’s Secret, and for shoes, I’ve consistently gravitated toward a good pair of heels from Dune London. And, of course, every girl needs a good handbag. While mainstream brands like Chanel and Hermès may seem out of reach, the only alternative is not fast fashion. One of my favorite examples of affordable luxury is Coach. I’ve taken care of my Coach purses over the years, and they look beautiful today. It’s their quality and timeless nature that gives them that wow factor.
The goal isn’t to own the most expensive pieces. It’s your own pieces you’ll be excited to wear years from now. Trends come and go, but a thoughtfully curated wardrobe never goes out of style.
Learn your style, invest in a few beautiful, high-quality pieces, and resist the urge to shop on impulse. You’ll thank yourself later. The most stylish people are the ones whose wardrobes feel like an authentic reflection of themselves. When you’ve truly found your style, people will see an outfit and instantly think, “That’s so her.”
A Chic Girl Knows What Suits Her
In a world filled with endless trends and aesthetics, it’s easy to feel like you have to make every look work for you. Every week, social media introduces a new “core,” or way to style yourself, and it’s natural to feel tempted by all of it. But one of the most important lessons I’ve learned about personal style is that not everything is meant for everyone, and that’s perfectly okay. When I look at the pieces I wear often, most aren’t trends at all. My grandmother wore large hoop earrings like the ones I wear today, and my mom wore baby tees and mom jeans long before they made their comeback. Fashion evolves, but certain pieces never truly go out of style. That’s one of the things I love most about my wardrobe.
Over time, I stopped trying to wear what looked good on everyone else and started paying attention to what felt right on me. I’ve always had softer features, big eyes, and a bubbly personality, so I’ve gravitated toward feminine silhouettes, delicate jewelry, and classic pieces. I reach for delicate silver jewelry, a simple vintage watch, and understated details that feel elegant without trying too hard. My nails are usually painted white or bubblegum pink, and my hair is often pinned back neatly or held in place with a headband.
When I look in the mirror, I don’t see someone chasing trends. I see the same girl I’ve always been, the little kid who insisted on wearing pink dresses and proudly showed off the nails her fashionista mom had painted for her. That’s when I realized something: personal style isn’t about becoming someone else. It’s about becoming more yourself. The goal isn’t to wear every trend or pull off every aesthetic. It’s to discover the pieces, colors, and silhouettes that make you feel most like yourself, and to hold onto them. There is nothing more chic than a woman who knows exactly who she is.
So, if you’re a girl who loves pearls and diamonds, a pretty dress, and a chic hairdo, then we have a lot in common. I hope these style lessons inspire you to curate a wardrobe you truly love and, most importantly, dress in a way that feels authentically you.