The other day I opened Instagram and started scrolling, per usual. One of the first posts I came across was from a popular news outlet page I follow. This post listed all the states in which reproductive rights are under fire right now (but then again, when are they not). Mortified, I quickly reposted the article to my story and expressed how repulsed I was/am by this. (For reference, in one of the states, Tennessee, lawmakers proposed a bill that would allow biological fathers to stop a pregnant person from getting an abortion). My purpose for reposting was to spread awareness, support pro-choice/reproductive rights/planned parenthood, and, yes, express my opinion on the topic. Someone I know “slid up” on my story and not only kindly voiced his own opinion towards pro-life vs. pro-choice based on his religious background but also suggested that I consider reasons from both perspectives. I had no intention of invalidating anyone’s viewpoint, so I explained myself.
Abortion bans, like the one mentioned above, scare the shit out of me. From a female’s perspective, the possibility that I may not have control over my body and my choices is terrifying. Living in California and having access to birth control and contraceptives, I feel safe having sex knowing that I control my future. Not everyone has this freedom, and I honestly might not either soon. For me, being pro-choice is about allowing every individual to decide what best fits their ideology and life. Some are against abortion, some agree with abortion. In the end, it is a personal CHOICE.
I understand how different factors play into one’s opinion on pro-choice vs. pro-life, but I think it is necessary to show up for each other, no matter the circumstance. That is why pro-choice is incredible; it gives women the power to take their bodies, lives, and futures into their own hands (as they should be able to) and make the best judgment. By being pro-choice, I can give my support towards either decision. Reproductive bans eliminate this ability. It is important to keep spreading awareness and supporting pro-choice so that we may respect and stand behind each woman and her choice. That is why I stand pro-choice.