I love my birthday. I love celebrating with friends, getting dressed up, and eating cake. I even break out the birthday tiara. (Just because I’m turning 21 doesn’t mean I can’t live out my childhood dreams of being a princess). I have counted down down the months, the days, until my big day. While partying is half the fun, birthdays are also a great time to reflect. For me these past few years have been challenging, but also rewarding. Each experience I’ve been given has shaped who I am. As time passes I discover more about myself, and the person I hope to be. Here are a few of the lessons that I’ve learned along the way.
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A heart does not break, it only aches
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Go outside and lose yourself in nature. It reminds us how small we are, in the best kind of way.
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Music is the heartbeat of your soul, so dance
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Be present, there’s no use in being in a hurry
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You help to create the world you live in and you have the power to change it.
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When in doubt, write it out.
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Teach yo’self.
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Stay curious, be open to every learning opportunity.
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Just because someone is different from you gives you no reason to judge them, If you take the time to get to know someone, they might surprise you.
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If you ever want to see the goodness in this world, go hang out with kids.
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Try again, Fail again, Fail better.
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Continue to be joyful, even when the world is telling you differently.
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Don’t get lost inside yourself, connecting with others is what makes life meaningful.
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Acknowledge other people as people. Whether it’s the janitor, or the president of a university, treat them with respect.
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You do not need to be in a relationship to be complete.
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Forgive others, but don’t forget to forgive yourself.
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Let the smallest miracles in your everyday life continue to amaze you.
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Be brave, and embrace the challenges life gives you.
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Keep you hope and faith, sometimes it is the more difficult thing to do.
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Don’t be afraid to laugh at yourself (You’re pretty damn funny).
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You have so many people to thank for making you the person you are today. Don’t forget to let them know.
A nerve racking question that I’ve run into at this point in my life is, “What do I plan on doing after college?” I don’t have a super clear plan, but I keep in mind that I don’t have to have it all figured out right now. I’m open to seeing where life takes me. So here’s to my 21st year, one that I hope to fill with adventures, laughter, and great memories.