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How To Say No to Guys

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Sarah Wong Student Contributor, University of Victoria
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Femi Tunde-Oladepo Student Contributor, University of Victoria
This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at U Vic chapter and does not reflect the views of Her Campus.

Every collegiette has, at least once in her life, had to deal with a boy who won’t take no for an answer. Whether it’s the pushy wannabe-hipster next to you in 8:30 chemistry class asking you on a date for the third time, or the belligerent and intoxicated frat boy inviting you back to his place, sometimes boys just can’t seem to pick up on our blatant disinterest. So what’s a girl to do? There are quite a few options, and, after consulting with my three (male) roommates, the following methods were proven to be the top 3 most effective ways to scare off a guy

1. Mention your scary ex-husband.

“Oh, dinner? I’d like that! The last dinner date I went on was with my ex-husband, who consequently just got out of jail three weeks ago…”

 

2. You didn’t forget to shave, did you?

“Oh, you’re smooth… you want to go back to your place? Sure! I just hope you don’t mind that I haven’t shaved in three months. What? It’s winter! I need the extra insulation!”

3. Let him know his timing is impeccable.

“I have to tell you before this goes any further… I’m on my period.”

4.  Just say it in the sassiest voice you can muster, accompanied by an ego-shriveling one-liner.

“How can I put it nicely? I’d rather shave my eyebrows than go home with you.”

5.  As a last resort, put all those hours running on the treadmill to good use!

“Sorry, gotta go, I need to double check the expiration date on my milk. You can never be too sure!”

So feel free to use any of those methods; hopefully they work out for you. Good luck, collegiettes!

Sarah Wong is a third-year student at the University of Victoria studying biomedical engineering. When she's not busy with school, you can find her at the gym, watching Criminal Minds episodes on her computer, eating ice cream, or wrestling her roommates (and probably losing). She may not be able to walk in stilettos or do a keg stand, but she knows how to weld, reformat a computer, and bake a mean cheesecake. Her style and beauty icon is Kate Middleton, and her life motto is: "What would Beyonce do?"
Femi Tunde-Oladepo is in her final year at the University of Victoria where she is studying at the Peter B. Gustavson School of Business. After her undergrad, Femi hopes to read law and master French, Spanish and Italian. She is an active volunteer in her community and enjoys working with the Rotaract Club on campus. Having filled numerous notebooks as a child, Femi adores writing — especially short stories. She likes to dance (spontaneously), listen to all genres of music, laugh loudly and be the sassiest person in a room. In her spare time, Femi likes to window shop online, go for runs and reorganize spaces. One day, Femi hopes to perfect the art of soft pretzels. Follow her on Instagram @femzieb to see her attempts at being artsy and pensive.