No More Drought
Q: Is it true that birth control lowers your sex drive?
A: With all the benefits the birth control pill has, it’s easy to forget that there are always symptoms that come with it. Over the years researchers have indeed found that the pill prevents the production of androgens, which are male hormones we have in our body, including testosterone. These hormones have a huge impact on the amount of pleasure we have during sex, resulting in a lower libido, and an even lower mood. Of course, not all women are effected by this; it depends on the type of birth control you are taking. So if you’re experiencing a dry spell, don’t worry, there’s still hope! Talk to your health provider and ask if you can get a different pill. See if it’s the right one for you, dust out the cob webs, and pretty soon you’ll be going for round 10. :)
Love Yourself
Q: Is it weird for a girl to masturbate a lot?
A: 89% of women masturbate on a daily basis. If anything, you’d be the misfit if you didn’t do it once in a while. It’s actually proven to relieve stress, insomnia, anxiety and menstrual cramps. So if you’re feeling a little down or up-tight, consider trying it out. It might loosen you up! Not to mention that it can be a form of exercise. It’s no 5k run, but you can lose up to 100 calories each time you masturbate, according to Young People’s Reproductive and Sexual Health & Rights Organization. Do that 3 times a day and you won’t have to go to the gym again! In addition, it can actually improve relationships; with yourself and others. It’s kind of like getting to know yourself; you can find out what turns you on and share this with your partner. The more comfortable you are with your body and what stimulates you, the easier it is for others to please you as well. In the end, sex should be with someone you love. So why not do it with you!
Fifth Base
Q: I want to try anal, but I hear it hurts. Should I go for it?
A: The dirt road can be a scary one if you don’t know what you’re doing. At first you may think of the back door as a one-way entry only. However, once you figure it out, you may enjoy it…maybe even more than vaginal sex. First and foremost, lube is a must. Without it you’ll be avoiding the bathroom at all costs. After that has been established, it’s all smooth sailing from there. You’ll want him to start slow at first, then after you get the feel of it you can change up the pace however you’d like. To make the experience more pleasurable for you, stimulating the clitoris at the same time helps a lot. All in all, don’t overanalyze it. If you never try it, you’ll never know if you’re down with the brown!