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Ask Her: The Last One Of The Spring Semester!

Piscis Martinez Student Contributor, Texas State University
Courtney Buck Student Contributor, Texas State University
Zoie Tidmore Student Contributor, Texas State University
Deseray Barraza Student Contributor, Texas State University
This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at TX State chapter and does not reflect the views of Her Campus.

What is the best way to make friends on campus?

Hey girl! 

Making friends in college can be hard, but here is some of our advice! We made some of our closest friends by reaching out on Instagram and putting ourselves out there. If you want any change in your life, you have to step out of your comfort zone and into a new space where you have to be uncomfortable in order to become comfortable with new people! You can try joining organizations based on some of your genuine interests, because there’s a possibility of finding someone just like you there! The answer might be right next to you in class! You may be able to make some class friends that turn into lifelong friends. 

And if all else fails, you have us! 

Your girls, 

Courtney & Piscis

What do you do when you have a crush on your best friend but don’t know if they feel the same way? Like, I can’t stop thinking about them!

Dear T, 

Let me tell you, we’ve been there, and it’s a tough place to be. You have to make yourself the priority. Think to yourself, are you okay being just friends with this person, or can you only see being in a relationship with them? After that, you’ll know if you need to put yourself out there. I’m proof that situations like this CAN WORK!!! But you need to be prepared for every response. Will you be able to continue the friendship if it’s not reciprocated? Try to pay attention to your friend’s body language and see if there are any signs of them feeling the same way. Whatever happens, not only respect their feelings and boundaries, but also make sure you respect yours as well. 

With all this being said, if you feel in your heart that it’s a good idea to pursue it. GO FOR IT!! We are young, and things happen. So take a chance, you got this!!

Love,

Deseray and Zoie <3

Piscis Martinez is the Editor-in-Chief of Her Campus at Texas State University, where she leads the chapter’s editorial vision, oversees writers and editors, and manages weekly publishing in alignment with national Her Campus Media standards. She is especially passionate about personal essays, advice columns, and lifestyle content that center authenticity, vulnerability, and campus culture. In her role, Piscis focuses on building clear systems, strengthening editing workflows, and fostering a supportive environment where writers feel confident developing their voices.

Beyond Her Campus, Piscis is a Public Relations major at Texas State University with double minors in Human Resources and Communication Studies. She also works as a peer consultant at the University Writing Center, where she supports students one-on-one in improving clarity, structure, and confidence in their writing across disciplines. Since joining Her Campus in Fall 2024, Piscis has grown within the organization as a writer, Section Editor, Senior Editor, and now Editor-in-Chief, gaining hands-on experience in editorial leadership and team development at every level.

Outside of work and class, Piscis enjoys drinking coffee, watching reality TV, and finding comfort in the small routines that keep her grounded during busy semesters. Whether she is editing an article late at night or brainstorming new ideas with her team, she is always excited to help Her Campus writers grow, feel supported, and take pride in their work.
Courtney Buck is the section editor at the Her Campus at Texas State chapter. She oversees the section’s direction, assigns ideas to writers, and ensures every piece offers responsible, supportive guidance to readers. She writes biweekly articles for Her Campus, collaborating closely with her team to develop ideas, conducting thorough research, and self‑editing her work to ensure clarity and quality. She enjoys writing original content, specifically personal essays and relatable pieces that reflect real student experiences to her own.

Outside of Her Campus, Courtney is a Mass Communication major at Texas State University with a minor in Psychology. She previously reported for KTSW 89.9 as a News and Culture Reporter and has completed a short internship with Swoon Memorial in Houston the past summer.

She enjoys doing her nails and journaling about her feelings as it makes her feel more grounded in her everyday life. She loves staying busy and productive so if her schedule is free, you can find her at the gym. She has big dreams and aspirations for her life, so although she doesn’t know exactly where she’s headed yet, she will be somewhere in the future!
Zoie Tidmore is a Senior Editor and Writer for the Texas State University chapter of Her Campus, where she plays a key role in leading the editorial team and upholding Her Campus Media’s publishing standards. In her position, Zoie oversees a team of eight writers, guiding them through the writing and editing process to ensure clarity, consistency, and authenticity across all published content. She supports writers in developing strong pitches, refining drafts, and maintaining the chapter’s voice, while also contributing her own work to the site. Zoie is particularly interested in covering politics, media, and culture, with a focus on how these areas impact college students and younger audiences.

Outside of Her Campus, Zoie is a Journalism major at Texas State University with minors in Media Studies and Political Science. She previously worked as a writer for The University Star, where she learned how to cover stories relevant to the campus and local community. Zoie joined Her Campus in Spring 2025 as a writer and has since grown into her role as Senior Editor, gaining more experience in editing, mentoring writers, and contributing to the chapter’s editorial leadership.

When she’s not working on her degree or editing articles, Zoie enjoys reading romance novels, listening to music, and spending time with friends and family. She is an aspiring journalist who hopes to educate and inform others about issues shaping the future of the world, using storytelling as a way to create understanding and spark meaningful conversations.
Deseray Barraza

TX State '28

My name is Deseray, and I am a political science major with a minor in journalism at Texas State University. I love to explore challenging topics so i can write and publish articles about them. Writing has always been a source of peace for me, especially when it comes to academics. It also helps me connect and relate with others.
Lastly I am a big advocate for mental health and just awareness on how to cope with it. I love writing articles that will help people cope with what ever they are feeling. It not only brings me peace to help others, but it most ways helps me as well.