Hey, Jumbos. Love Guru here! This week, I finally get to answer my readers’ questions about love, and I’m excited to help out. Here are some of the love dilemmas your fellow Jumbos are facing.
Dear Love Guru,
The boy I was hanging out with ghosted me, and I don’t know where to go from here. Am I not his type anymore? What’s going on?
-Recently Ghosted
Dear Recently Ghosted,
You deserve way better than this guy. Ghosting is a sign of cowardice. If people can’t tell you face-to-face that they're no longer interested, then they're not even worth your time. I can’t really tell you why this boy has done this because I don’t know any details, but I can tell you to stop trying to analyze the situation. Why he ended it shouldn’t matter–he ended it. A lot of people tend to over analyze situations and make them more complicated than they are, and a lot of boys are simpler than that (trust me, I grew up of with three brothers). This relationship wasn’t meant to be, and it’s time to move on! There’s a definitely a better man for you out there, so don’t worry about this one too much. Have a little fun, and put yourself out there. Ghost boy does not deserve your attention. In fact, he doesn’t deserve you at all. Keep your head up, and meet new guys.
Dear Love Guru,
How do I tell a hookup buddy of many months that I either need more or that it needs to end?
-Confused
Dear Confused,
