Valentine’s day is here again, and for many single people it’s hard not to feel a little bit lonely. If watching your peers get showered in roses and chocolates is causing you to feel down, remind yourself of these seven reasons why being single is actually pretty rad.
1. Endless possibilities.
Is that guy at The Pub checking you out? Who knows! But if you’re single and interested, you have the opportunity to explore.
2. No pressure to shave.
The pressure to shave your legs is real. Even if the obsession with smooth legs is silly, it’s hard to overcome. However, if no one will be seeing them, you have no worries about skipping a week or two (… or five).
3. You’re not constantly texting someone.
Many relationships these days involve constant communication throughout the day. When you’re not texting someone every half-hour, you’re more involved with the people physically around you and will fully engage in the moment.
4. You can live by your own terms.
A big part of being in a healthy relationship is compromising. But sometimes it’s good to have things your way for a change.
5. You’re juggling fewer social circles.
Finding a balance between time spent with friends, family, and a significant other is a balancing act. Maybe what you need is to prioritize your friends and family.
6. You’re more independent.
Significant others can be great supports, but being single may push you to be more responsible for managing the consequences of your own actions.
7. You can participate in Galentine’s Day!
Girl-bonding is one of the strongest forces out there. If you’ve got at least one other single friend, celebrate this February 14th together and relish in your young, single freedom.
Being single and being in a relationship both have their ups and downs. Whichever situation you’re in, don’t overlook its positive aspects. If you’re still feeling down about spending this Valentine’s Day alone, check out these Tinder Pick-up Lines to spice up your love life.