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Crushing Your New Year’s Goals Without Crushing Yourself

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Samhitha Balamoni Student Contributor, Toronto Metropolitan University
This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at Toronto MU chapter and does not reflect the views of Her Campus.

Everybody has been there. When January arrives, we are incredibly motivated and prepared to take on the world with our brilliant new objectives. After a few weeks, the initial spark begins to wane. You’re exhausted and overburdened, and all of a sudden your New Year’s pledge to study Mandarin seems like a bad idea. Does that sound familiar? Burnout is a typical cause of unfulfilled ambitions, and you are most likely feeling it. But don’t give up! Without compromising your wellbeing, you can definitely accomplish your New Year’s objectives. It all comes down to striking a balance between self-care and ambition.]

Ditch the All-or-Nothing Mentality

Thinking we have to get from zero to a hundred overnight is one of the biggest mistakes we make. You don’t start running 26 miles on January 1st if your objective is to run a marathon. Divide your large objectives into smaller, more doable actions. This lessens the intimidating nature of the journey and provides you with a sense of achievement along the way, which can be a powerful source of motivation. Every week, or even every day, consider what you can actually do.

Plan Your Self-Care Like a Board Meeting Plan Your Self-Care Like a Board Meeting

Really? Self-care is something we frequently put off until later, when we have more time. However, you shouldn’t miss time set out for yourself, just as you wouldn’t skip an important business meeting. Make time on your calendar for rejuvenating activities, such as reading a book, having a soothing bath, or going for a stroll. Research indicates that prioritizing self-care can significantly reduce stress and improve overall well-being.

Accept the Power of “No”

Saying “yes” to every chance might be tempting, particularly if you’re feeling ambitious. But continuously pushing yourself too far is a certain way to burn out. Learn to respectfully turn down obligations that may deplete your energy or don’t fit with your objectives. Your time and energy are limited resources, so take great care to protect them. A lot of the time, saying no to something positive means saying yes to something wonderful (like reaching your objectives!).

Appreciate Little Victories (Really, Do It!)

Recognizing your success along the journey is essential for sustaining momentum and drive, even if we sometimes wait for the big climax to celebrate. Did you meet your weekly fitness objective? Have you completed the chapter you’ve been delaying? Pat yourself on the back! Celebrating little accomplishments may increase dopamine levels and keep you focused on your objectives. Enjoy a cup of coffee, watch an episode of your favorite program, or just pause to acknowledge your progress.

Obtain Enough Zzzs

This may seem apparent, but when we’re attempting to fit more into our day, it’s frequently the first item to go. Sleep deprivation, however, is detrimental. You are less prone to stress and irritation, more productive, and more focused when you get enough sleep. According to the American Academy of Sleep Medicine, adults should get between seven and nine hours of sleep. Make getting enough sleep an essential element of your daily routine.

Connect with Your Tribe

Don’t do it alone! Tell your loved ones or friends about your objectives. When you need support the most, having a cheer squad can help. Finding an accountability partner who is pursuing a similar objective is even better. You may encourage one another, exchange tactics, and jointly enjoy accomplishments.

Visualize Your Success

It might be quite effective to set out some time every day to picture yourself accomplishing your objectives. When you cross the finish line, picture how it will feel and what you’ll see, hear, and even smell. You may maintain a high level of drive and confidence by practicing mentally.

Reaching your New Year’s objectives doesn’t have to be difficult. By using these techniques, you can prevent burnout, maintain your motivation, and make 2024 the year you really shine, all while having fun!

Samhitha Balamoni

Toronto MU '26

Samhitha is a Computer Science and Psychology student at Toronto Metropolitan University who enjoys writing about everything from pop culture rabbit holes to the ways technology shape everyday life. She strives to keep her writing approachable and easy to connect with, making readers feel like they’re part of the conversation. Outside of writing, she loves reading books, watching movies, and discovering new music to soundtrack her day.