Your college roommates share more with you than just a fridge—they can have a big impact on your attitude and academic success. The leasing season for next school year has already started, and whether you are renewing your lease or starting fresh with a new place to live, the decision to live with roommates is one everyone must make. If you are paired with a non-student roommate or want to move in with someone who currently does not attend college, I have made a short list of some things to consider in this situation. These are a few tips I learned from having a non-student roommate myself!
1. Know they will not always understand what you are experiencing.
As college students, we can all relate to exam weeks and finals as well as spending countless hours reading and studying for tests. Even if your roommate has attended some college, they will not be able to fully understand what you are going through. This can be a good thing, though! If they are willing to have conversations about topics you as a student struggle with, your roommate can often provide a fresh perspective.
2. They can work wonders for your mental health.
You’re stressed, I get it! My roommate has offered to take over household chores as well as cooking during particularly stressful weeks. It is best to have a working schedule you share with them: make sure you are doing them favors too! Having someone who you can communicate and be open with at home can improve your mental health and well-being. Think of your home as a safe place; you can study there, but you don’t have to deal with those people you normally would in your classes.
3. If you can, choose them wisely.
The same rules that you have for roommates in school still applies to those who aren’t. Having an idea of the sort of person you are looking for is key. If your roommate works, you want to be aware of their schedule, so it does not affect your study or sleep time. Your home should be a place to leave drama at the door, not invite it into your home life. If the person you want to live with does not understand you as a college student, then consider if they would be a respectable roommate. Overall, your roommate should have a lifestyle that complements your own, regardless of whether they are a student or not.
4. They should be your equalizer.
My roommate is someone I count on to listen to my endless speeches protesting schoolwork, lower my anxiety, and share my fries with while we binge a TV show. Although she does not currently attend school, she is considerate of my needs and can help me make mature decisions about my health. Likewise, having a roommate who is not a student can add balance and responsibility to your life.
While these tips are based on my own experience with a non-student roommate, there is a sense of generalization about this subject. Hopefully these tips can help you wade through the waters of college roommate advice!