I have seen almost every rom-com there is. The classics, the underrated, the Netflix originals. All of them. If it involves a meet-cute, a big misunderstanding and a public declaration of love, I’ve watched it (and probably loved it). So trust me when I say: these are the only rom-coms that actually matter.
- “When Harry Met Sally” (1989)
This movie is the blueprint for all rom-coms. Sharp writing, real conversations and characters who grow instead of just falling into each other’s arms. It’s not just good for a romantic comedy; it’s a great movie with a unique plot.
- “10 Things I Hate About You” (1999)
The ultimate high school rom-com. Heath Ledger’s “Can’t Take My Eyes Off You” moment is unforgettable, but the rest of the cast, especially Julia Stiles and Allison Janney, is just as iconic. Still hits every time.
- “Never Been Kissed” (1999)
Drew Barrymore pretending to be a teenager for a story should not work, but somehow it does. It’s awkward in a very intentional, very ‘90s way and has one of the best endings in rom-com history.
- “How to Lose a Guy in 10 days” (2003)
This is my favorite rom-com of all time and I have rewatched it more times than I can count. Kate Hudson in her famous yellow dress and Matthew McConaughey riding his motorcycle up to her cab makes this movie a must-watch.
- “13 Going on 30” (2004)
Sweet, nostalgic and somehow still relevant. Jennifer Garner is impossible not to love in this, and it perfectly captures that weird moment when you realize being an adult isn’t exactly what you thought it would be. Also, the “Thriller” dance scene deserved an Oscar.
- “She’s the Man” (2006)
This movie is unhinged in the best way. Amanda Bynes is hilarious, and Channing Tatum somehow sells the sweet, dumb jock bit without it being annoying. It’s peak 2000s insanity that still holds up.
- “Crazy, Stupid, Love” (2011)
The most stacked cast ever starring Steve Carell, Ryan Gosling, Emma Stone and Julianne Moore. It’s funny and romantic, but it also says a lot about how love changes with age and experience. And, the “Dirty Dancing” lift scene lives in my head rent-free.
- “The DUFF” (2015)
A high school senior discovers she’s been labeled the “DUFF” (Designated Ugly Fat Friend) and sets out to reinvent herself with help from a charming jock. This film is way funnier and smarter than it gets credit for. The only problem with this movie is that they try to convince us that Mae Whitman isn’t beautiful and perfect.
- “To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before” (2018)
“To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before” works because it doesn’t overdo it. It’s low-stakes, well-paced and actually lets its characters feel like real people. Lana Condor carries the whole thing effortlessly, and the simplicity of the story makes it rewatchable in the best way.
- “Anyone But You” (2023)
It’s messy, loud and kind of ridiculous. But that’s what makes it good. Instead of pretending it’s smarter than the genre, this one just leans into what works: quick banter, genuine chemistry and a setting that’s basically a character. Bonus points for the cliche ending (that I loved).