New year, new issue. 2025 is in full swing and we’re here to guide you through the dark winter nights with advice on dating, friends, coursework- the lot. St. Andrews is the place where the dating pool is smaller than your tutorials, Tesco doubles as a packed social event, and somehow we still can’t hack a Scottish storm. So grab a cuppa (or something stronger- happy February), and dive in.
“How do I approach my library crush? There is this guy that I always see when I’m in the library who is sooo cute but I have literally never seen this man outside of the library. How can I get to know him without coming off as weird”
Library crushes are my favourite type of romantic interest. It’s mysterious, studious, and I feel like the protagonist of a Brönte novel. However, figuring out how to transform stolen glances into the latest Will & Kate is slightly less idyllic.
Before you do anything you must remember the cardinal mantra of fancying someone: a crush is a lack of information. Sometimes they’re only super cute and charming when you haven’t yet found the skeletons in their closet- but I trust you to assess the situation once you’ve gotten to know him.
First things first, where in the library are you? If you’re on a silent floor it becomes a little more tricky. My advice would be to approach him in a neutral setting to avoid interrupting him during an essay breakdown, and have a light hearted conversation- maybe ask if he wants to join you on your next coffee break. If you don’t feel that brave, you could try the classic ‘I’ve forgotten my pen’ number.
Whatever you do, I would not recommend submitting him to crushdrews, it seems pointless and slightly desperate but, a girls gotta do what a girls gotta do.
“How on earth do you find decent men to date in St. Andrews?”
For the first time, I am totally stumped. While I am aware that there are plenty of good men in town, I’m just not sure where one finds the secret society of genuinely eligible men where they’re all hiding.
Therefore, my advice would be to stop looking! I know it sounds completely contradictory but I’m a firm believer that love finds you when you least expect it (I know everyones hates to hear it- I’m sorry).
Focus on the things that make you sparkle- your friends, your books, your hobbies, your wardrobe. I promise you that if you look inwards and manifest happiness and wholeness, you will become the most beautiful version of yourself and if someone comes along, great! And if no one comes along, still great! You are so wonderful just for being you!
And just like that 2025’s first St. Andrews’ Scoop draws to a close. Whether you’re plotting to approach your library crush, or desperately trying to find an eligible suiter, remember- university life is full of chaos and fun but that’s what makes it so worth it. Let’s begin 2025 with confidence, courage and love. Keep the questions coming and laughter going!