The 21st century has introduced us to some fascinating, addicting technology. From Snapchat to GroupMe to YikYak, there are various ways to connect with people you may not have met prior. As a result of globalization and the introduction to new technology, especially in apps, the rules of the dating game are drastically changed.
Instead of eyeing someone cute in your class, crushing on a guy you met at a mixer or flirting with that boy that lives in your dorm, you can simply swipe left or right to potential boyfriend material by sifting through photos, profile information and looking at mutual friends to see if they’re worth going for.
To maximize your success on dating apps like Tinder, Bumble and Hinge, here are some tips and tricks to make your profile “super likeable.”
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1. Choose photos that showcase different sides of your personality.
While nothing beats your selfies on Snapchat, having six photos of your “best side” shown whilst out with your friends on the weekends constrains your online persona. Instead of opting for the “hottest” photos, try mixing in a few of you doing something you love (i.e. hiking, hanging at the beach, or traveling), with people you love (groups of friends, family)…and let’s not forget– a puppy photo will always get brownie points.
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2. Make your bio original.
Despite how great “dogs, netflix and chipotle” are, the obvious, likeable qualities most humans share will not separate you in a sea of people trying to get matches. For example, how many times have you rolled your eyes at a guy’s profile that reads, “[Instagram name] [Snapchat name],” “[insert height] because it matters” or “[location] to [location], [school name], [fraternity]” If you can venture an answer, then think about it as a two-way street. Guys are just as tired of reading the same, semi-original statements as girls are. Try writing something that is a brief, clear statement of who you are or quote something that’s just too funny/sarcastic to pass up.
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3. Apply age and location settings accordingly.
The most simple, realistic advice one can give, to avoid having a Tinderella heartbreak or a potential online-only relationship ensue, please remember to adjust your settings accordingly. Not only will this help sift through options that are not viable (i.e. it’s highly unlikely you’ll ever meet up with someone 40+ miles away from you), it also helps weed out people you probably aren’t compatible with anyway (i.e. if the age range default is 18-25 but that’s not your thing, then change it).
Some of you may hate this advice, some of you may take this to heart. Whatever the case may be, good luck out there and happy hunting.