For those of us who love a little too much, know that you’re not alone. Understand that being this way has its pros and cons. Its hard for others to understand that when we love we give our all and every piece of us. Its hard for us to find that special person at times but, when we do we give them our all, we give all our love and attention.
Loving too much is not a bad thing at all, because that’s how it should be. If you are in a relationship you must put in the work and invest in the relationship time and love. Giving your all may be risky but, it’s the most beautiful thing and feeling when you look at them and tell yourself “wow I’m in a relationship with this magnificent human being.” Loving a little too much gives you this sense of optimism and a need to work through the rough times no matter what.
Being this way sadly can be dangerous. When someone you love with all your being breaks your heart, it is not only emotionally painful it is physically and mentally painful. It destroys you, it eats you alive and makes you numb. Getting your heart broken when you have given that person everything you had and all your love is the worst feeling that you will think you’ve been through.
This feeling is inexplicable and it will make you miserable and hate the way you love others. Because in the end you will ask yourself “there I did it again I gave myself to this person, for what? To get my heart broken one more time,”
Loving with everything you have is the most beautiful and painful thing you’ll ever do, it will make you fall madly in love with that special someone and make you vulnerable. Giving your all is wonderful and will allow you to love this person unconditionally, but when things go wrong it will change your view of love and will make your view on love cynical and insecure.
Just know that many of us love like this and it can be the most amazing thing you can experience, because not everyone will encounter someone who loves the way we do. So, when you love someone don’t be afraid to give them your love. Understand that we are always vulnerable no matter how we love.