Let’s just admit it: there’s a secret code our generation uses when talking about our futures. The economy is in the dumps, a bachelor’s degree isn’t enough anymore, and there simply aren’t enough jobs out there for all of us. It’s a pretty bleak world out there, yet for some reason it’s easier for us to pretend like we have everything together than to admit that we have no clue what we’re doing and are pretty worried about it. Next time you’re in a conversation with a current college student about their future, correspond their answers with the following secret meanings and silently thank the lord that you’re not the only one who has no clue what they’re doing
“I’m going to travel after graduation.” = “I am not ready to enter the real world yet.”
“I’ll probably just get a job.” = “I have no idea what the real world is like.”
“I’m visiting home for the summer.” = “I’ll probably spend the next couple years living with my parents.”
“I’m going to be a party planner/interior decorator.” = “I’m looking to marry rich. Know anyone that can make that happen?”
“I’m going to graduate school next year.” = “I am not ready to be a ‘real adult’ yet.”
If you’ve found yourself saying one (or more) of these things, don’t worry: we’re all guilty of it! And every single one of these is an acceptable plan for your future… As long as you don’t end up living at your parents’ house forever.