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What Our Mothers Wish They Knew at Our Age

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Her Campus Santa Clara Student Contributor, Santa Clara University
This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at SCU chapter and does not reflect the views of Her Campus.

This Mother’s Day, we decided to turn to the wisest women we know for advice, our mothers.

“I wish I didn’t think I knew it all and took the advice and listen more to the wisdom of my parents – when I think back now to the advice they gave me I realize how right they were….listen to their stories because some day it may be too late…”

-Lori Baker Hardy, mother of Meaghan Hardy ’15

“I’m beautiful, I’m healthy, I’m young. Why didn’t I know how great I looked at this age?”

-Denise Grills, mother of Abby Grills ’15

“Start saving early for retirement”

-Judy Johnson, mother of Keyonna Smith ’15

“Having grown up in a foreign country with different expectations and cultural values, one thing I knew when I turned 21 was that I didn’t have to conform to the expectations of my youth.  Women in the Philippines were usually married and having children around 21. Having a career was not expected and families usually lived together under one roof.  This made raising children and caring for aging parents possible.  But here I was, in the United States, at 21 with a blank slate and no obligations to fulfill. I hope this generation of women and the others to follow will never feel that they have to “do this” or “be that”.  I hope they find their true passion early so that their lives are lived to the fullest.  I hope they find mentors and friends who will support their dream and encourage their true calling.”

-Anna Price, mother of Shannon Price ’15

 “Take everything one step at a time. Life is a marathon, not a sprint.”

-Deepa Arora, mother of Jay Dubashi ’14

“I wish I knew that all the behavior traits that I thought I ‘inherited’ from my family were a choice to take on… or not. I wish I knew how important sleep was!! And that every hour you run short you have to make up sometime.”

-Lisa Knapp, mother of Marit Knapp ’15