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Goodbye, I’ll Miss You

Madeline Thornton Student Contributor, St. Bonaventure University
This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at SBU chapter and does not reflect the views of Her Campus.

As I have mentioned before, I have had a tough year. I have overloaded myself, put myself through multiple little problems, and was trying to balance the overinvolvedness that I had put myself into. Thankfully, I have pulled myself through, and sometimes you need to go through hard times to realize how much you can handle. But just because you can handle it, doesn’t mean you should do so much.  

While I went through a lot, I still learned a lot, and I do appreciate it. I am excited to take a step back.  

Planning next year, I will leave my Fridays open to spend them however I please. I am choosing to be bored, and if you know anything about me, I have to be doing something at all times.  

But I am grateful to be bored again. I will be able to pick up old hobbies and enjoy them. I will strengthen my baking skills and start reading again. I will be able to just be and be whimsical.  

I won’t miss a lot from this year, but I will miss a few, one being Big/Little Coordinator.  

When I was struggling this past year, one of the things that took my mind off was the Big/ Little program. I enjoyed running the program and working on trying to grow it. While I am leaving it differently than I found it, and not the way I would choose, it taught me a lot.

I learned that not everything has to be perfect and that it will be okay. It taught me that sometimes important things are found where you don’t expect to find them, and most of all, it taught me that sometimes needing to change when something isn’t working, but in a way you wouldn’t like, isn’t a bad thing.  

I have had to grow alongside this part of Her Campus, and it showed me some of my greatest strengths and my worst weaknesses.  

I hope that next year, I will learn to live in the whimsy and be able to let go and live, which is a large ask if I do say so.  

This year has taught me a lot about myself, the good, the bad, and the ugly. I have met great people, created great things, and I won’t miss a lot, but I will miss some.  

To the program I think of as my baby, I hope you grow and become the best that you possibly can be! 

Madeline Thornton is the Big and Little Coordinater for the St. Bonaventure Her Campus Chapter. She writes pieces that focus on girlhood, campus life, reading and a multitude of other interests. These pieces will range from fun and lighthearted, to some more thought provoking and heart tugging. She hopes to grow the sisterhood bonds with the Big and Little Program as well as her creativity within her writing.

Madeline is currently a sophomore Psychology major with a minor in Business Administration minor. Madeline not only spends a lot of time dedicated to Her Campus, but also around campus with being a Student Ambassador, working in St. Bonaventure’s Financial Aid office, a Resident Assistant, and being a part of multiple other clubs: Empower, Book Club, Psychology Club, Women in Business and ENACTUS.

Away from her academics, Madeline spends her time reading, working out, and hanging out with her friends and family. She has two cats, Clara and Caliope. She loves anything that could be put into a romance genre, from books, movies and more! Lastly, she loves to grab a sweet treat, her favorite ice cream is Grasshopper Pie, it tastes better than the name, she promises! She works at an ice cream shop over the summer, so she will never say no to a sweet treat!