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First Semester Recap

Tara Friedman Student Contributor, St. Bonaventure University
This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at SBU chapter and does not reflect the views of Her Campus.

Going into college, I was honestly terrified. During the summer, I was so stressed about making friends, and if I was going to like my classes; I even questioned my major a couple of times (and I still do). All of my friends were thinking the same thing, too; we would always talk about the what-ifs of college and just hope that nothing would go wrong.

But now, as I look back on the past few months, I realize how wrong I was. Everything has turned out great. I have really good friends, passed all of my classes, and have even joined a few clubs (like Her Campus) that I love.

One of my biggest fears was missing home, but I honestly feel like I have thrived here. I only went home three times: fall break, my cousin’s wedding, and Thanksgiving. Of course, I still talk to my parents and friends almost every day, which keeps me connected, but I feel a new comfort in being away at college.

Another fear of mine was my 301 Spanish class. I honestly thought I was going to fail. I even met with my advisor to try and drop it, but he said that I couldn’t. Now, it was 100 percent my favorite class of the semester. I can’t believe I am saying this, but I really am going to miss it. It was such a fun class, and I passed with an A in it.

I was also scared of forgetting something, but now I know that I overpacked way too much, like insanely overpacked. I have way too many clothes that I don’t need. My roommate also packed everything in her closet, so we have plenty of resources when we need to find a cute outfit.

I have had a lot of great moments this semester, but all of them always involve my roommate. She has become my bestest friend here and my biggest supporter. I honestly don’t know what I would do without her. We have had so many laughs together, cries, and countless inside jokes. I honestly am going to miss her so much, like I’m sad to have to sleep in my room at home.

I can’t believe how scared I was at the beginning of the semester, and now I’m sad to go back home. It’s funny how things can change so much, but I feel like I have really made this place my home away from home, and I am so grateful to have it here.

Tara is a first-year member of the St. Bonaventure Her Campus. She will be publishing articles weekly on topics such as music that she is listening to or just life in general. She hopes to continue to add inspiring articles to her chapter of Her Campus and share her opinions and ideas with the world.

Tara is currently a freshman at St. Bonaventure, studying Advertising and Public Relations in the Jandoli school of Communication.

Aside from academics, Taras's life is inspired by music, family and her best friends. Tara loves the outdoors and seeing the perfect sunset at the end of the day. She loves spending time with her family and being out way too late with her friends.