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Burnt Out, But Grateful

Gabrielle Martin Student Contributor, St. Bonaventure University
This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at SBU chapter and does not reflect the views of Her Campus.

As I am writing this right now, I am one week away or so from midterms. I am falling apart in a way. Coming back off winter break I expected to have the spark back that I get at the beginning of the school year in August. However, that was not the case. For the first week back, I was overwhelmed but still okay. As we have gone through the first month or so it has progressively gotten so much worse. This morning, I went to class and forgot my caffeine, and that was one of the last straws.

In cases like this when school is making me burnt out it is hard for me to be grateful to be in this place in my life. When I am exhausted and can barely function, it is hard to be happy simultaneously. However, this year a resolution for me was to be more grateful. For me, how it typically goes is being grateful gets crowded by either everything I have to do or what I do not have. And although I should not feel that way, I honestly do some of the time, and that feeling has been amplified lately.

When I forgot my caffeine for class it was the straw that broke the camel’s back. Such a small thing that made me realize how burnt out I was. However, when this happened, I realized I needed to take a step back. So, after class, I got my caffeine, sat down, and thought. I thought about how grateful I am to have the issues I do. That sounds stupid but in reality, these are the biggest issues I have going on for me right now. That means that life is very good and for that I am grateful. I am grateful that I am in the position that I am, getting a degree to become a teacher, and living my life with my best friends. You only get a short amount of time in college, so I am learning to be grateful for what I have going on for me right now.

However, after this moment I am still feeling burned out, especially with everything I have to do in the next week or so with midterms. But I have less clouded judgment and can be grateful for everything I have going on for me right now. I hope that thinking this way forward will allow me to have a better mindset after spring break. Even if it does not, I will still be able to feel more grateful for what I have going on for me in the moment.

Gabby Martin is a junior writer for HerCampus. This is her third year writing for this organization. She writes about her emotions and current life situations while also talking about mental wellbeing and self care.

Outside of HerCampus she is an Educational Studies major. She also participates in the BEA and Psychology Club. Her last two years writing for HerCampus brought her so much happiness that she cannot wait to embark on another amazing year with this chapter.

She is from Caledonia, New York which is about 30 minutes outside of Rochester. In her free time she's love to spend time with her friends going out to eat or going on walks. She love reality tv shows as well as cheesy romantic comedies. Her favorite food is bagels and she drinks a coffee every single morning when she wakes up. Her main goal in life is to have an imprint on someone's life or have a positive influence on the choices they make in life. She's a girl who definitely makes a ton of mistakes and tries to help others not make the same ones.