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All The Lives Of Me

Audney Burnside Student Contributor, St. Bonaventure University
This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at SBU chapter and does not reflect the views of Her Campus.

Those who know me know that I do not play about Hugh Jackman.

I have consumed almost every piece of media relevant to him. The movies, interviews, and most certainly the musicals.

His Broadway debut exists within the confines of a cheesy musical entitled The Boy from Oz, which is a telling of the life of singer/songwriter Peter Allen. It details the ups and downs of his life, putting to song the experience of a rough childhood, stardom, grappling with sexuality, and more. I actually really enjoyed it…“slime tutorial” quality and all.

The intro to the musical itself is a song called “The Lives of Me,” an intro to our main character as he performs a look back on himself and all the lives he has lived. Through his lyrics (and Hugh’s dreamy voice), he tells us that “Everywhere I go, I am followed by a lot of people” and that “If you could see all the people, they’re everything I ever was and everyone I ever will be, all the lives of me.”

This song once unironically went platinum in my headphones, and found its way back this week after Apple Music’s pre-made “Audney’s Radio” played it out of the blue.

Which got me to thinking… I am 21 years old, and yet have already lived so many lives it seems.

With an accumulation of “phases,” dozens of jobs, and millions of side quests, I couldn’t help but consider all the lives of…ME. The “people” so-called “following me” for the rest of my existence are really just alternative versions of myself.

On the surface level, of course, there is middle school me, and high school me, etc.

But looking beyond the obvious, there is miserable Walmart cashier me, the me who didn’t talk to anyone for two years during the COVID-19 pandemic *and enjoyed it*, the child who was convinced her dream career was to be a truck driver, and cool pink-apron waitress me.

Academic challenge bowl champion me, and couldn’t get through geometry without raging over IXL me. Coffee hater me, and Starbucks barista me. You get the point. I could probably think of dozens more.

The more “lives” you collect, the more complex an individual you become. What a gift it is to be able to change so much in one decade-long span of time, and an even bigger gift to be able to hold onto pieces of everything throughout the way.

So… what are “all the lives” of you?

Audney Burnside is Co-President of the St. Bonaventure Her Campus chapter. She publishes articles weekly, spanning the topics of music, lifestyle and popular culture. She hopes to further the amazing creativity that her chapter of Her Campus has to share with the world, while coordinating meetings, helping where needed, and running the business side of things!

Audney is currently a senior at St. Bonaventure University, studying Public Health in the 3+2 Occupational Therapy Master's program. Audney brings a high degree of campus involvement to the chapter, not only as Co-Pres of Her Campus, but also as a peer mentor in Bona Buddies, the President of SBU for Equality, a Student Ambassador and also as a peer tutor!

Apart from academics, Audney’s life revolves around the music she loves, outdoorsy adventures, and her best friends. Audney is a devoted cat mom and enthusiastic nature explorer, who loves kayaking with her family, takes way too much pride in her Taylor Swift concert attendance, and will bring up The Catcher in the Rye at any moment possible. Don't even get her started on Pride and Prejudice....