One of the first plants that I’ve bought was a succulent named Evelyn or Evie for short. I was going through a rough time and I felt the need to just take care of something. I’m not maternal (at all) but I do have the type of personality where I like to be needed. I wanted to feel valued without toxically clinging to other people. So I bought a succulent. And then two more. And then a fish. But, that’s not important. Becoming a plant owner taught me a lot of things. Here are a few–
- I’ve learned to be more perceptive
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My plants can’t talk to me so I have to make sure I pay attention to them. It’s strange but I’ve memorized what my plants look like to keep them healthy. I notice even the littlest of changes in my plants. I’ve researched how to keep them alive and keep a regular schedule to water them.
- I’m not (and may never be) ready for big responsibilities
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I might be a little dramatic when I say this but it’s true. One time my plant Prycilla’s stems turned brown and shriveled up and I resented her for it. I know it’s ridiculous but it’s true. Taking care of plants in hindsight is minimal work but it’s the most I’m willing to put into something.
- I care a lot about aesthetics
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Pretty pots are my jam. I think most of the reason why I like plants is that they really brighten my space. Picking out plant pots and exploring potential pots for future friends really helps me discover my decorating style.
- I’m an extrovert through and through
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As an extrovert, I like to spend lots of time with people. But, even the most extroverted people like to be alone sometimes. I realized that being in a room with living things is a good way to find a happy medium. I feel like my plants and I are alone together.
Although I was a plant mom for only a little while, I feel like I’ve learned a lot about myself. I’d recommend the plant life to everyone and anyone.