Women: the most difficult creatures on Planet Earth. ONe would think that creatures that are just alike would understand each other, right? WRONG! This week it’s all about judging, being judged and how to make a man commit.
Q. Why do females feel like they need to throw themselves at guys in order to be “HOT?”
A. Good question. But first, we must know the difference between an aggressive woman and “the other kind.” An aggressive woman is not afraid to ask a guy out; she is direct and knows what she wants. She is also not afraid of her sexuality. On the other hand, there’s “the other kind,” and these type of women look for validation through their sexuality. Some women feel that all they have to offer is sex and nothing more. Underneath it all, most of these women are insecure and have low self-esteem. Don’t get me wrong, there are no rules about this, a woman can have sex when she wants and with whom she pleases, just as long as it is done respectfully (e.g. in private, with protection, etc). Sexuality is an amazing force that ALL humans possess, but some take advantage of it. Being “HOT” doesn’t always have to be something involving any sexual acts or even your body.
Q. Why are women so quick to judge one another?
A. My roommate and I made a formula for women a while back that perfectly describes this question: “with men, innocent until proven guilty. With women, guilty until proven innocent.” This means that women do not easily trust other women and I guess it’s because we are territorial creatures. We are always on the lookout, especially when we feel threatened or feel like someone is trying to take what we consider “ours.” But I think it is time to ease up ladies, put your claws down and embrace each other. Let’s try to give each other a chance before we make assumptions about each other.
Q. Why do women feel like having sex with a guy is going to make them fully commit to being in a monogamous relationship?
A. Are girls still doing this? Tisk tisk. SEX WILL NEVER MAKE A GUY COMMIT. When guys genuinely like you, they like you for your mind and your personality, not only the fact that they’re having sex with you. Nothing can make a guy commit except the GUY! He will decide whether he wants to be in a relationship with you. Come on ladies! Stop feeding yourselves the short end of the Snicker’s bar! LOL.
Q. If a man confesses his affection to you while you are in a relationship, is that wrong? After all, how many dudes keep it real and don’t play games.
A. This situation is ONLY wrong if you are feeding into this guy’s feelings for you. Of course it is flattering to be desired by more than one man but the only man that counts in this situation is your boyfriend. So, if you find yourself liking the attention from the other guy, this could be a bad sign. It is not your fault, however, that he confessed his feelings for you. Try not to lead him on and let him down gently or this could be real bad for your relationship.
Q. Why do men judge women off of their looks?
A. Whether you want to believe it or not, human beings in general judge people off of their looks. It is innate. Naturally our eyes are drawn to beautiful things from natural to artificial and we want to be surrounded by these things. So to answer your question, guys judge girls off of their looks because they know what they are attracted to. I mean, ask yourself, would you be with a guy if you weren’t physically attracted to him?