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Guide to Throwing the Best 21st Birthday Party

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Abby Brown Student Contributor, Pennsylvania State University
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As the last of my friend group of nine to turn 21, I know how to throw an unforgettable 21st birthday party, especially on a broke college girl budget.

I’m the biggest birthday fan, I love celebrating my friends and planning parties is my love language. Here I will share my budget-friendly tips and tricks to help you make your friend’s big day special.

Shein Decorations

I wouldn’t normally promote Shein but I’ll allow it when it comes to decorations since they are typically a one-time use and I’m all for saving money. I used to order decorations from Amazon, but it added up quickly.

Shein offers good quality decorations at a great price that is perfect for college students. My tip is to order way before the birthday party because sometimes their shipping can take a little longer.

Personalized Theme

Creating a personalized theme for the birthday girl adds a special touch and makes the celebration even more fun, especially when ordering the decorations.

Some themes my friend group has done include the trendy “Tini Bit Older,” “Meet Me at Midnight,” “Tiffany & Co.,” “Roaring 20s” and more.

It can be hard to match the theme to the person and their outfit, but when in doubt, coordinate the decorations with their outfit. Try to subtly find out what they’re wearing ahead of time.

Banner

A painted banner makes all the difference at a birthday party.

There’s something about DIY crafts that really warms the heart. It helps tie the whole theme together and makes for the perfect backdrop for that 21st birthday Instagram photo.

Creating something by hand adds a personal touch that makes the celebration feel extra special. You can find brown paper at Walmart or Dollar Tree for cheap and grab some paint from Michaels. You’re all set.

Walmart cake

Walmart offers customizable cakes where you can choose the flavor, filling, icing colors and the top and bottom borders. You can of course add a personalized message too.

The design is well done and has that Pinterest-worthy, vintage cake aesthetic without breaking the bank. It’s a great price for something that will be eaten in no time.

My tip is to pre-order in advance for a hassle-free pickup so you can check one more thing off your to-do list on the party day.

Trader Joe’s Flowers

As a big flower lover, receiving flowers is one of my all-time favorite gifts.

While it depends on the birthday girl, but flowers are usually a safe bet. Giving them a bouquet of their favorite flowers on their birthday morning will make them smile and they’ll be able to enjoy them for the next week.

If you didn’t already know, Trader Joe’s has the best flowers that are long-lasting, affordable and beautiful. You can pick up one of their pre-made bouquet or make your own without needing to splurge on an expensive florist arrangement.

My tip is to prep the flowers by cutting, deleafing and arranging them in a vase before gifting them. It looks much more presentable than leaving them in the plastic wrap, and it saves the birthday girl the hassle of doing it themselves.

I hope these tips and ideas inspire you the next time you’re hosting or planning a 21st birthday.

Hi my name is Abby Brown. I'm a junior studying Advertising at Penn State.