As women, we sometimes tend to let people, whether it be a significant other, parent, or friend, tear us down over slight things. Our generation is growing up in a world where everyone is shamed if they don’t fit a certain mold. This makes it hard for young girls to see the beauty that they truly possess. I wanted to write this article because I, like every other girl, have been through a time where I didn’t truly love myself and gave into the mean and hateful comments that people gave me.
It is so important to understand that the flaws that each one of us has makes us unique and that is why you are special. It is important to forgive and forget when people do or say something that may be hurtful. I’ve learned that holding on and constantly reminding yourself of another persons actions or comments, will only bring you down even more. The first steps in loving yourself is to just forgive and forget.
Eliminating people from your life who continuously make you feel bad about yourself is also important. It is hard at first but, I promise you’ll be happier. If you feel like this person is someone that you truly want in your life, than talk to them about it. Let them know that their comments or actions hurt.
Going to someone you love also helps. The person who you truly trust and will listen is essential. You know that they love you and will give you the world. Having one person that truly cares makes it so much easier to love yourself.
Lastly, my best piece of advice is to ignore the haters. Who cares about what people have to say about you. Most of the time, the people who are so quick to judge, are the people who aren’t happy with themselves. You are beautiful and you were made this way for a reason. In the words of the great Rupaul, “If you can’t love yourself, How in the Hell are you gonna love somebody else?” Can I get an Amen up in here?
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