High school may not have been your forte but college is a new place to explore every venture that you were too afraid to in high school. This is your time to be you. Whether that is joining the cross-country team or attending the nearest comic-con festival, enjoy those moments that make you who you are. However, not only do the activities and clubs that you join in college affect your persona, but the “behind the scenes” stuff plays a huge role in your life as well – or at least it should. Now, I’m not talking about the “go get a coffee and ponder life” types of things; I’m talking about the X-Rated stuff that no one ever really wants to talk about. Well, I’m here to help you conquer all those fears that you might be having.
Everyone is unique in their own way, so some of this stuff might turn you off. However, some of it might turn you on! Just remember that mixing it up is key. So, here are seven “types of sex” I recommend having in college in order to really get in touch with yourself.
1. The Honeymoon Sex
So you started dating a new guy… Wonder what he’s got going on down there? Explore. Dive in, because the honeymoon phase of a relationship is a GOOD one. The honeymoon phase is when you are too in love to even realize what is going on in the world, or too in love to even care. This is a moment to explore new things with someone new. You offer a new position and get to test the waters with what you were afraid of before. It is a world of possibilities, so get creative! This sex has no limits; it can be passionate, fast, freaky, romantic, anything you ever wanted it to be and more.
2. We Might Get Caught Sex
Living in a house with 4 other housemates might seem like a lot to handle, but not when you are balancing it out by spicing up your sex life with a little rendezvous in the living room. All of the adrenaline will be running ramped through your veins because the thought of one of your house mates walking through that front door has you on the edge of your seat. Savor that moment because it is almost like you are on cloud nine. This sex might get cut short if you hear your roomies coming up the steps to the house, so get ready to act natural… “Oh, hi, we were just going over anatomy: the study of the human body.”
3. Make-Up Sex
So the Honeymoon phase ended a bit too quickly, but that is okay because you and your significant other are trying it out for the second time. Feelings may have been hurt, and tensions may be running high, but the perfect cure is that “I’ve missed you so much, why were we fighting” passionate sex that follows the end of a breakup. Get your anger out in this passionate romp. This sex needs to scream passion. This sex needs to get hot and sweaty so get your angers and frustration out in this love fest.
4. I’ll See You Soon Sex
Winter break has arrived… OH NO. What are you going to do for a whole month without your love? Make the going away sex the craziest you can, so your lover cannot wait to get back to make up for lost time. This kind of sex needs to directly say “You are obviously going to miss me.” Make him miss you in every way possible.
5. Feel Good Sex
A lot of the times when people fantasize about their sexual experiences, they picture this wild and crazy event that almost never actually occurs. With that being said, sometimes it is just nice to have that slow, almost relaxing sex with someone you truly care about. Feel for the other person’s body and respond accordingly. Truly get in touch with yourself and make it so that both people are comfortable. It is actually boosting your self confidence in the most natural way possible.
6. Role Play Sex
Act out your wildest fantasy with that crush of yours. Naughty school-girl? Sexy boss? Make it happen. Let your imagination go ramped. Play naughty or play nice, the choice is yours. Ladies and gentleman, feel confident! A fantasy that you are picturing has probably crossed your lover’s mind at some point, so do not be ashamed when you have a crazy idea.
7. The Quickie
Everyone has heard of the quickie. Call your boy toy in the middle of the day for some X-rated fun before class starts. But you better make it quick… That is the fun in all of it. Knowing that you only have a short period of time to get the job done, makes it extremely desirable and HOT.
As long as you are being safe, I say have as much fun as you possibly can…