We all have that one professor that just — well – terrifies us. We’ve taken a bad grade we didn’t deserve in order to avoid any confrontation with the teacher from the black lagoon. In a class with 500 students, it’s often impossible to get to know your professor on a personal level. But if you are able to have a conversation of any kind, you will most likely walk out of the class with a better sense of the material. Also, your motivation to approach your professor will definitely score you some brownie points.
Sometimes we forget that our professors were once in the exact same position we are. As unapproachable as some may seem, most professors understand the struggles of college life and are willing to help us be as successful as possible. The hardest part is muscling up the courage to talk to one of these educators – espicially when there is a grade on the line.
But fear no more – here are the four most beneficial tips to starting a conversation with an intimidating professor:
Be confident – In most situations in life, being confident will help you get what you want. No matter how apprehensive you feel on the inside, portray yourself as calm, cool, and collected. This will show your professor that you know what you want and you’re determined to get it.
Know what you’re asking – If you show up to talk to a professor with no real question in mind, the entire meeting may be a waste of time. Whether it’s a question on a grade or simply to get to know the person educating you, have in the back of your mind the direction you want the meeting to go. Often times your teacher will not know how to adequately help you unless you spell out exactly what you need.
P.S. — This will also save you from any terrifying awkward silence!
Go to office hours – Office hours are specifically designed for students to communicate privately with their professors. Approaching them in passing after class shows them that the issue at hand is not important to you. Office hours allow you to sit down and have a genuine chance to explain yourself. If you’re unsure of your teacher’s hours or office location, it’s usually listed on the course syllabus. If you can’t make office hours, shoot your teacher and email to set up an appointment. Taking the initiative will really show your professor you mean business.
Be prepared for rejection – It sounds horrible, I know, but many teachers have hundreds of students to appeal to and they may not be able to make exceptions for you. If you’re trying to improve a grade, a professor does have the right to deny you the change. However, taking the time out of your day to discuss an issue shows your professor that you are trying. This may help you leave an impression on your professor that may be useful to you in the future.
Especially during this stressful time in the term, communication is essential to making the grade. When talking to a professor, be sure to approach the conversation the right way to ensure a positive outcome. Although some professors may be intimidating, a part of life is conquering our fears in order to get what we deserve!
Best of luck!