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The Bro Blog: Freshman Joey Lautrup Shares His Perspective

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Joey Lautrup Student Contributor, Northwestern University
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This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at Northwestern chapter and does not reflect the views of Her Campus.

Bro’s Name: Joey Lautrup
Graduation Year: 2015
Relationship Status: Single (Ready to Mingle)
 


Collegiette Question:
     What makes you want to date a girl, as opposed to hook up with her?
My Answer:
      I feel like this goes for most people, but girls to hookup with can be anyone that I find attractive, but a girl that I would deem dateable definitely has to meet some higher standards. She needs to have a laid back yet confident personality that makes her fun to be around.  You don’t really need to bond too much with a girl that you hookup with, but a connection is pretty important with a girl that you date.

 
Collegiette Question:
     What’s the biggest deal breaker?
My Answer:  
      The biggest dealbreaker for me would have to be bad personality. If a girl’s rude, obnoxious, or whiny, then there’s literally no point in even being around her. 

 
Collegiette Question:
     What makes a girl more or less attractive?
My Answer:
      Obviously, I’m going to find good-looking girls more attractive, but I think it’s also really attractive when girls are more mysterious and when you don’t know exactly what they’re thinking all the time. Mystery is a whole lot more fun than a girl who is an open book.

 
Collegiette Question:
     At a party, what makes a girl stand out?
My Answer:
     A girl stands out at a party if she is dressed in flattering clothes that somehow put her above the rest of the girls there. She should look like she’s enjoying herself or at least doing a really good job of pretending to be. If she seems really comfortable with herself and outgoing, then I think that that will grab the attention of any guy.

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Collegiette Question:
     What do you notice most about the way a girl dresses?
My Answer:
   
   I think that because I ran all through high school, I’m really conscious of how girls’ legs look. If a girl with nice legs is wearing a short skirt, then I will definitely notice. Even though some girls dress more conservatively and still look good, I think that is a general biological consensus among men that girls wearing less material are visually more appealing.
 
 
Collegiette Question:
     What trends do you not want to see on a girl?
My Answer:
  
    I’m not really into piercings and tattoos all are over girls. Usually, I find it a huge turn off if a girl’s body looks like it should be featured on the Discovery Channel. A couple of piercings can be cute, but if a girl has a bar sticking through her eyebrow, than she cannot expect me to focus on any of her other attributes.

 
Collegiette Question:
     What quality do you like least in a girl?
My Answer:
      No one really likes self-centered people, but this is something that really bothers me. If a girl only talks about herself and how “interesting” her life is, I’m bound to G.T.F.O.

 
Collegiette Question:
      What puts a girl in the friend zone?
My Answer:
     
  I think that you just sort of know when someone is in the friend zone. It’s kind of an intuitive feeling more than anything else. However, I think the best indicator is when you can complain about your girl problems to another girl. That other girl is clearly in the friend zone.

 
Collegiette Question:
     What’s the best way for a girl to indicate she’s interested in a guy?
My Answer:
     
At least in my case, I think that sometimes girls need to make it painfully obvious whether they are interested or not. A lot of times, guys will be clueless as to what their chances are with a girl, and this probably because girls are either being too polite or are sending mixed signals. With many guys, I think girls need to flirt more to get their message across. In my opinion, touching is the best indicator. If a girl touches my shoulder or arm, I feel pretty clued in that she’s into me.

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Casey Geraldo

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Casey Geraldo is a junior at Northwestern University. She is journalism major, with a broadcast concentration, and a history minor.Casey coaches gymnastics, and in her spare time, she is usually babysitting, watching TV, eating candy and ice cream or spending time with the people she loves.Follow Casey on Twitter! @caseygeraldo