We’ve all been there…a single person in a sea of happy couples. It seems that everywhere you go, people are holding hands, smooching, and (God forbid) shopping together for matching his-and-her polos. The mall, the grocery store, there is no escape! Who knew picking out breakfast cereal could be so depressing. Whether you’re recovering from a bad break-up or simply free-floating in the single
zone, going solo can seem scary. But put down the Frank Sinatra and listen up—being single definitely has its perks. If you know the ABC’s of being single, it’s smooth sailing.
Shut Off the Cell phone. Okay, so there’s a reason that Blackberries are nicknamed Crackberries…cell phones are addictive and they’ve got us all hooked. Let “John Doe” from the frat party sweat a little bit, and turn off your phone. You’ve got better things to
do than wait for a text!
Invest in yourself. Treat yourself to a mani-pedi or a new hairstyle. You deserve to be pampered! Guaranteed, you will leave the salon feeling like a celebrity. Funds limited? Baths aren’t just for kids. Break out the rubber ducky, and some relaxing music and treat
yourself to a nice long bubble-bath.
Never fear friendship. Some people may be skeptical about whether girls and guys can truly be “just friends.” But it’s definitely worth giving it a try! Guys are a lot of fun to hang out with, especially when you’re not entangled in a web of relationship drama. Just make sure that when pursuing a new friendship, you make your intentions known right at the door so you don’t lead the guy on.
Go out with the Girls. This one is simple. Hit the clubs and dance so much you’d make Beyonce proud.
Learn something new. Take the time you would be wasting lounging around with your boo, and do something you’ve always wanted to do. Join a club, do some yoga, take up oil painting, hip-hop dancing, snowshoeing…whatever floats your boat. The options
are endless.
Exercise, exercise, exercise! Pull your sneakers out from the back of your closet, dust them off, and take ‘em to the gym. Not only will exercise give you endorphins (the happiness chemical in your brain), but also a bangin’ bod. Try setting a personal goal for yourself, and keep a log of your progress. For example, see if you can work up to doing 40 crunches by the end of the month. You’ll be proud of
yourself!
Now that you know the ABC’s of being a happy single, get out there and celebrate. Pour yourself a drink, and make a toast to the single life! Couples will envy you.