If we survey different types of people from all over the world, the one thing we might have in common is that we all hate to hear the word, “no.” In dealing with the twists and turns of life, I realized that dealing with rejection is all a growing process.
Whether it’s a “no” from an internship, our moms, or an unrequited lover, we must learn to manifest and flourish in our self love and not allow rejection to consume us. People change like seasons, situations change at the speed of light, but one thing we should always be sure of is ourselves. We are not defined by the denial we experience in our lifetimes.
Society has brainwashed us to think that we should constantly chase a certain image to achieve true happiness: whether it be wealth, fame, or many companions. I have always been an avid believer in chasing the true happiness within myself. After a long day of trying my hardest, just for it not to be good enough, I find solace in thinking deeply. I take a hot shower, use my special aromatherapy wash, and binge watch my favorite shows. Often times in my dark, silent room I find myself reflecting on my past, present, and future.
My oh my, I have I come a long way.
The most beautiful feeling at the end of the day is when I remember that I am a resilient black queen…then life doesn’t seem so bland anymore. In that moment, it hits me that the one “no” from a company or a guy I like doesn’t matter anymore. The plans we have in store for us are much greater. I promise your world will not cave in. If I would have stopped at my very first “no,” it’s no way I’d be where I am now.
I know that the best is yet to come.