Q: Whenever I check my Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter, I often see the most outrageous posts and eventually become annoyed with that person. What are some tips for not being “that annoying girl” online?
A: I think we’ve all been there where we’ve thought, “Gosh, does this person realize how annoying they sound?” Whether it be someone subtweeting about another person or purposely posting a selfie with their cleavage hanging out, it’s evident that what you post online can and does alter other people’s perception of you in real life. Over the years, online communication has exploded and posting about your meal or how great your workout has become second nature to us. Have you ever checked your Twitter, closed out of it, checked your Instagram, then closed out of it to only find yourself doing that over and over again? Think about it… Is that healthy? Probably not.
Why do we care about what other people are doing and feel obligated to share so much about our lives on the Internet? Sharing intimate details of your day, your personal life, your home life, and anything else that you can think of just unnecessary. What makes a person interesting isn’t about how many times they say something, it’s about how many times they don’t. What makes you interesting, intriguing, and approachable? Make your posts and tweets matter by only sharing the good stuff and not impulsively sharing something because it’s become a habit. Make people want to know you in real life, not just online!
So, how can you enjoy your online experience without being that annoying girl? I’d say just be yourself. Don’t post things out of anger, sadness, or negativity because I’m sure you don’t want to be perceived as someone who’s bitter. Posting happy thoughts, nice or funny photos, and overall positive things will make you come off as someone who’s always in a great mood, and someone who’s more approachable. Step away from your phone when your angry, upset, bored, desperate, or annoyed, and I promise that you will come off just fine!