Q: Guys seem to never approach me. How can I make myself seem friendly to guys when I first meet them?
Aside from her looks, the first thing a guy notices about a girl is her body language. In order to be approached by guys, you need to look approachable and friendly! Think about the times you are out with your friends and surrounded by tons of guys. Do you seem closed off? The little things such as not smiling or crossing your arms in front of you could send of that message that you aren’t interested in socializing, and aren’t in the mood to talk to someone new.
With that said, confidence is the number one thing you need to attract guys. It doesn’t matter what you look like, what you’re wearing, or who you’re with – if you seem comfortable in your own skin, it will make guys comfortable enough to talk to you. Make sure you’re always in a great mood when you go out with your friends as well because it’ll make it a lot easier to start any conversation with a guy.
If that doesn’t work, why don’t you approach them? Guys are overanalyze and overthink just as much as us girls do! They may be feeling shy as well. If you make the initiative to get to know them, it may even impress them and make you stand out from the crowd.