It is crazy to think that the one you are meant to be with is out there in the world right now. They are doing their own thing in life and so are you and you both have no idea your paths are going to cross one day. Turning that moment into one of the best days of your life. You have probably dreamed of the day the right person will come into life your life, because I sure have. Being 22, I have been seeing a lot of my friends and the people around me getting married and having babies. Leaving me wondering if I am ever going to feel that way about someone or will I be forever alone. There is someone out there for you and when the time is right it will happen you just have to be patient and let the puzzle pieces of your life fit together.
We are often told by the media that if you are single then you must not be happy and doing something wrong. Honey, be single for as long as you can until the right person comes along. You do not want to be with someone who does not treat you like a princess every day and gets butterflies just by hanging out with you. There is no certain way you have to dress, no size body you need to be or no amount of makeup you need on your face. Your soulmate is going to love and care for you no matter what. And you will know they are the right person when those things do not matter to them. You should be with someone who doesn’t care about your looks but more about your personality.
Do not settle for someone because you are lonely or bored. That may help for the time being but in the end, you have to think, are you really happy or just like the idea of being happy? Spend that time of feeling bored and recreate who you are. Do not let the distractions of having a random guy over all the time take over your well-being and true happiness. Never lower your standards just because you want to be with someone. If you are not taking care of yourself and putting value in you then no guy will either.
Having second guesses on if the person you are with is the one? Then most likely he’s not if you have to second guess yourself. Your one and only will come into your life. It may not be when you want it or it may come as a surprise. But there is someone out there for everyone and everyone deserves to feel the never-ending love from someone and for someone. As for now if you are single and waiting do not stop living your life to the fullest when it’s meant to be it will be.