Dating is complicated and no one knows this better than the quirky cast of HBO’s Girls. Displaying the unique elements we all must endure as a part of this generation, Lena Dunham’s creations, Hannah, Marnie, Shoshanna, and Jessa, have served as the raw voices of the Millenials. Week after week, these characters manage to remind us of ourselves in one way or another as we tune in to watch them cope with the chaos of their lives on our TV screens.
So far, we’ve watched the four women experience many personal ups and downs throughout the show’s three seasons, many having to do with navigating through complicated relationship issues. Although they may appear to be just as dysfunctional as you and your best friends, if you sift through all the muck, the girls of Girls actually offer up some surprisingly helpful dating advice.
Love is scary.
The modern age of dating can be a nightmare. The mere thought of the dating scene leaves you feeling hopeless.
But no matter how tough the times, you must always keep your standards strong.
Your true self is your best self so don’t be someone you’re not simply to impress a new guy. Let’s be honest, we all like Marnie the most when she actually chills out for a second and lets her true fun-loving self shine through.
Shosh teaches us that we must always use our words. Honest communication all the way, ladies.
And work those eyeballs. Never forget the importance of being deceptively adorable.
Don’t be afraid to try new things and step out of your comfort zone. Jessa would be so proud of you.
Besides, dating someone with different views can be really healthy for you. Except when it’s not.
Or I mean you could just boycott the whole dating process in general.
You should find someone who isn’t afraid to make a fool of themselves with you in public…
And who kisses you when you’re eating ice cream cones just for the heck of it.
When you finally find someone who really cares about you, let them.
The right person is going to stick around through all your drama simply because they couldn’t imagine letting you go it alone.
Unfortunately, life is harsh and people disappoint you sometimes. But when someone breaks your heart, you find a way to keep truckin’ along.
You mustn’t waste the present on the past. Don’t let memories of that certain ex keep you from enjoying what’s right in front of you. Seriously, Marnie. Charlie sucked.
Most importantly, when you’re experiencing a quarter-life crisis sparked by a shaky career and a sucky love life, remember you’re a charismatic 20-something with so much charm and creativity to give to the world.
Better luck is just around the corner. Might as well relax and try to enjoy the bumpy ride.