PDA is definitely a touchy subject (pun totally intended). Some people get really offended if they see affection in public, while others don’t think anything of it. Outside of the generally gross and unacceptable PDA behaviors, there are still some grey areas. This week we set out to define some of those boundaries with PDA Do’s and Dont’s.
Hands
DO: Hold hands or put your arm around each other. There is nothing wrong with a little connection either by hands, shoulders, or waist. People will not get offended by a little holding, in fact most people will probably think it’s cute.
DON’T: Grab or slap anywhere on the body that is “off-limits” to other people of the public. When you are walking down the street people don’t want to see you and your significant getting handsy. It’s just not classy.
Kissing
DO: Give a short peck on the cheeks, lips, hand or nose. It’s cute and there is nothing wrong with a little peck to say goodbye, or just to remind each other of your love.
DON’T: Have a hot and heavy make out session where everyone can see. People don’t want to participate in an elaborate display of affection in the middle of the market. It’s not cute, it’s just gross.
Couple Conversations
DO: Talk about your love openly, and feel free to say cute things like “Good morning, beautiful” or “Hey there, handsome.” No one will be gossiping about those things behind your back.
DON’T: Be too detailed. Keep things PG and don’t say anything that you wouldn’t say in front of your mother. If your mom doesn’t want to hear it, you can pretty much bet on the fact that random people of the public do not want to hear it either.
In general, just use your head. We are all young and want to have fun. However, there is a fine line between having a fun time flirting and just being trashy. Try to remember to stick to the former.