Here I am writing my last article for Merrimack’s chapter of Her Campus. They truly do not lie to you when they say time flies when you’re having fun. Before I go, here are the lessons I learned that have shaped me the past four years.Â
Putting Yourself Out There
For the first half of college, I participated in nothing. Joining Her Campus, and The Office of Student Involvement was something I did not do until junior year, but now I can’t imagine my college experience without it. I learned that the best things happen when you take a chance on yourself, even if it feels uncomfortable at first.Â
Finding Your People
The people you surround yourself with matter more than you think. I found friendships that supported me, inspired me, and made everything along the way more meaningful.
Trusting Your Voice
There were times I doubted myself, but I’ve learned that my voice matters. Being true to who you are will always take you further than trying to fit into something you’re not.
Appreciating the Little Things
It’s easy to focus on the big moments, but it’s the small ones that stay with you. The everyday laughs, conversations, and memories are what I’ll hold onto the most.
Not Caring What Others Think
This one is the most important to me. This is a topic I’m still working on, but I’ve come a long way. I’ve learned that you can’t fully be yourself if you’re constantly worried about how others see you. Letting go of that fear, even just a little, made me more confident and more comfortable in who I am. I know I can do whatever I want, as long as I am happy.Â
This is the end of my time at Merrimack College, but I will hold on to my memories, especially from Her Campus forever. It will never be a goodbye, just a see you later.