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More Women Today Say They Don’t Want Kids

Emily Gianni Student Contributor, Manhattan College
This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at Manhattan chapter and does not reflect the views of Her Campus.

By Emily Gianni

A growing number of American women have lost interest in having children.  In a survey from the November Pew Research Center, 44 percent of people who aren’t parents said it is not likely that they will ever have kids.  This is up by seven percent from the same group who participated in 2018.  There is no main reason behind women not wanting to have children.  As of April 2022, one in six Americans, 55 years and older, do not have children. 

First of all, children are expensive.  Childcare costs are up to $10,000 a year.  Birth rates have fallen four percent from 2019-2020, which is the sharpest single-year decline in birth rates since 1979.  Now, it is claimed that the more educated women get, the more likely it is for them to postpone having children.  More and more women are having children in their thirties.  According to a report written by the US Department of Agriculture, the average middle-income family spends between $12,000 and $14,000 on child-related expenses every year.

Women decide just not to have children now because they would rather focus on their careers and travel.  Some women claim that they are afraid they will lose themselves if they choose to have children.  Their lives will be completely focused on their children and they won’t be able to benefit their own lives.  They want more freedom in their own life that allows them to experience their own life and follow their dreams.  Women would rather not have children to focus on their life and goals, especially with work.  As of 2012, mothers were spending about 104 minutes a day caring for their kids.  This is about twice what mothers did in 1965.  The pandemic also increased responsibilities for caring for their children in the home.  This increases the commitment parents have for raising children.

Women are not having children because of their very own personal decision.  Some women do not want to have children because they do not want to be like their biological parents.  Some women do not want to have children because they do not want to change their bodies.  Some women are choosing not to have children simply because they do not like kids.  It is clear that women are increasingly having  a say in whether they want, or don’t want to have children.  More women now than ever are choosing not to have children, and it is being more normalized!

Emily Gianni

Manhattan '24

Hi I'm Emily! I am in my Senior Year at Manhattan College, graduating in Spring 2024. I am studying Childhood Special Education with an upward extension to middle school with a double major in English. My goal in life is to teach elementary school and later on, teach middle school. Although I don't have a position in my Her Campus chapter, I am still an active writer for Her Campus!

I write about all different topics for Her Campus, anything that interests me or that I believe other girls will find useful and informational. I am a team captain on the Manhattan College cheerleading team, so I may write about that sometimes. I also love sorority rush season so I have written about my sorority a few times.

I believe that Her Campus is an amazing source for women to put their work out there and influence other girls. I love being a part of this organization and being able to write about whatever I love. This is the best outlet for me to learn more about my writing style, experiment with different topics that I would not be allowed to write about in a class, and grow as a writer.