Welcome to your freshman year! It’s a new start on your education, what you want to do, and who you want to be! Congratulations on getting here!
As I look back on my first time sleeping in a dorm and taking college finals, I can’t help but reflect on how lucky you are. You’re at an exciting time in your life and can look forward to so much joy and self-discovery within the next few years.
That being said, I also know that this time can be a bit terrifying. It’s not easy to make such a huge transition! But know that every emotion you’re experiencing has been felt by countless students before you. And, as a former college freshman, here are some important lessons I’ve managed to learn along the way:
- Ask questions endlessly.
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This is your time to explore and challenge and learn. Ask questions if you’re curious, if you don’t understand, or if you’re unsure. If you’re told that you’re asking too much then simply ask some more.
- Appreciate the little moments.
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Your time in college is going to fly by, so make sure to savor the moments that make it incredible. Dance with your friends in your dorm, say yes to grabbing a coffee with someone, visit a professor you think is cool, and make that spontaneous weekend trip. Whatever it is that makes you happy, make sure to be present in that moment.
- Call home.
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Your parents, your siblings, your friends from high school – whoever it is that you miss, make sure you let them know. It might seem like a small thing, but it keeps you connected to the ones who care for you. And, for the nights when homesickness starts to creep in, it’s a great way to keep your loved ones close.
- Remember your own privilege.
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You might encounter people in college that you’ve never encountered before. We all hold certain identities that come with our own privileges. Even being able to go to college and receive an education is one. Knowing who you are allows you to make sure you’re not occupying a space that is not yours, and also lends empathy to individuals who don’t have the same privileges that you might have.
- Persue your passions.
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What makes you happy? What keeps you awake until 3 in the morning? Those are the types of things that will motivate you to get out of bed every day. Find them and be fully selfish with pursuing them. College is the time where you have the time to do so.
- Get involved with clubs and organizations.
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There’s so much more to college than going to class and coming back to your room. Clubs are a great way to meet new people, snag some free food, and find out what some of your interests are. They can even lead to internships and possible career paths! If you want a great place to start, why not consider joining our team at Her Campus?
- Know this:
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“Even if you are lost, it does not mean your compass is broken.” – Anthony Hopkins
There are countless opportunities to take and so many people to meet. You’ve got a wild few years ahead of you, but how exciting is that?! No matter what happens during those first few weeks of freshman year, I promise things will work out. I wish you all the best on this journey!