1) My boyfriend loves watching sports. Just when one season finishes another begins. Do men love their sports more than their girlfriends? How can I get him to pay alittle more attention to me without sounding like a nag?
 Men do not love sports more than their girlfriends. Granted, there are a few maniacs out there, but the majority of men deep down inside love their partners more than any game. Sports are a unique common ground for people in general, not just men, and we need competition in our lives. It’s our basis on making fun of friends’… fantasy football… tuning into PTI on ESPN between classes, (Pardon The Interruption)… (a sports talk show on ESPN).  You don’t have to nag, perhaps you can take a small interest into his team as a loving supporter, or root for the opposite team to tease him. Some of us find that kinda cute. My girlfriend supports my team and I support hers, but I still give her crap for it when the team loses. Sports doesn’t have to be something that tears you apart, when it can be something to not only show each other you care, but bond further into your relationship. For example, sit and lay down with him while he’s watching the game, BUT *Warning! At your own risk: we tend to jump for every play/catch/call/goal/
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2) My boyfriend and I broke up and he’s going around acting as if we were never were =(. Is this an act that men pull or should I attribute this to his insensitivity?
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Post break-ups are always very broad because obviously every person is different. I tell my friends this when they ask for advice, just be you. Find yourself again. Perhaps that is what he is doing and trying to carry on with things. And if you cant do that… fake it til you make it. Smile and carry on as if nothing were the matter and soon enough you will believe it yourself. Then again, I understand how you feel because we as men can be MAJORLY insensitive, especially when we’re suppose to be most considerate. That’s why you shouldn’t linger. My advice would be to carry on with your life and don’t get sucked into whether he looked your way or not. We all adapt to situations differently. In the words of the great philosopher Kevinonious Hart: Do you boo boo. Do you.
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