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The Brospective: Guys, Gals, ‘n Stuff

This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at IU chapter.

Should I work out with my boyfriend?                                                        

I’m going to have to go with a soft “no” on that one. Let me explain: It’s not that I think you won’t get a good workout, it’s a safety thing. Since we know he’s into you—and why wouldn’t he be—he’ll probably show off. Show-offs in the gym tend to hurt themselves… badly. 

We can’t have either of you getting hurt, now can we. The best course of action is to use that time to focus on getting the best workout, and escape into some solid music or comradery that doesn’t pressure you or your significant other to show off.

 

 

How do you get a guy to buy you a drink?

Girl:        “Hey, when are you doing to buy me a drink?”

Guy:      *Buys drinks*

What you have just read is a quick play-by-play of how to get a guy to buy you a drink. Easy. We, men, are simple creatures. No need to be subtle, we don’t get it. Got it? Good. Drink responsibly!

 

How much is too much interaction between a boy and you?

I plan on a completely platonic interaction between any man and myself, but on the chance you are not referring to me with your “you” then:

This question is very vague; I’m not sure if that’s the intention or what, but I’d say this is most likely referencing the physical aspect. That always seems to be a big question from men and women. I’d say respect each other, plain and simple, but it also depends on the relationship you have with one another. If your just friends, hugs are cool. If you’re dating casually, maybe just holding hands and cheek kisses—the cutesy stuff. If you’re in a committed relationship, kiss him*!

*Don’t go kray with that one.

 

How can I impress my man?

Just be interested in him and the things he likes. There is nothing more appealing than a woman who wants to do what we love, or just punch us straight in the nose, we LOVE that, and it shows you’ve got guts.

 

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