If you’re a senior in college, you’ve probably heard the same question on repeat: “So, what are you doing after graduation?” For many of us, that question sparks instant anxiety. Will I have a job lined up? Will I need to move back home? Should I go to grad school and take on even more debt?
It’s not that I’m not trying, I’ve applied to countless jobs this semester. But when I finally received an offer, I was surprised by how conflicted I felt. After a lot of conversation (with my parents, the recruiter, and yes, even my therapist LOL), I ultimately decided to decline. It wasn’t an easy decision, but it was the right one for me.
The truth is, the job simply wasn’t what I wanted. On paper, it looked great, a full-time position right out of college, but the reality would have meant 50+ hour work weeks, a two-hour daily commute, and working weekends. While saying “yes” might have eased my short-term stress, I knew it would lead to long-term unhappiness.
In a culture that glorifies constant productivity and immediate success, it’s hard to say no, especially when everyone around you seems to have their post-grad plans figured out. But saying no doesn’t mean failure. It means trusting yourself enough to wait for the right fit.
So, bet on yourself. The right job is out there, and you deserve one that values you and excites you. Don’t settle for anything less.