Ladies, it is around that time where it is getting cold outside, the holiday season starts next week. However, you still do not have a boyfriend or “bae” your talking too its okay. If you feel a down about it that’s okay, but pick yourself up. Here are some steps for if you have not been cuffed during cuffing season.
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Spend time with your loved ones
The holiday seasons has always been about fellowship with your family and friends. Spend quality time with your family, go out to eat with them, go to a museum, or just have a movie night with them. Especially, if your in college, and have not seen them for a while. They are the ones who deserve some much need time with you.
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Focus on yourself and your personal growth
There is a time and a season for everything. Knowing and being comfortable with not talking to someone shows, that you can be alone. Solidarity is important it helps you to know that you do not depend on someone else to make you happy.
Be Patient
Patience is key when your waiting for your Prince Charming to come along. Always stick to your morals and values. When you do not you allow mistreatment and that’s not healthy for your selfesteem.
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Adjust your Mindset
Your mindset has to be aligned with the kind of life you want to cultivate. Having a positive mindset is key if your feeling down about not having a significant other to spend the holidays with. Speaking what you want to accomplish into existence pushes you to your goals. The law of attraction is real. If you put positive energy into anything your doing, a positive outcome is bound to happen. It does not always happen as quickly as you want it but having faith brings you a step closer to reaching your goals. Lastly, it is best you put your faith in something. If you believe in God trust in Him and His specific path for you. If you believe in the universe believe that it will give you what you dream and think the most about.
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Stay in your “own” lane
You have to be willing to condition yourself and trying to becoming a better you everyday. “What is meant for you will be for you”. Telling yourself this everyday is essential.