Having a sibling can afford you a beautiful relationship, but then there are those times when having a sibling makes life a bit more difficult. Things like 24/7 competition, game nights full of uncontrollable drama, and getting stuck with dish duty even though your sibling is completely capable can definitely get under your stkin. But having a sibling doesn’t have to be a complete pain in the butt, so here are some ways you can improve your relationship with your sibling.
Accept Your Differences
You and your sibling may be completely different, and that is perfectly ok. If you like something that your sibling doesn’t, there is no need to get upset. My little sister is 11-years-old and she likes to spend a lot of her time reading. Reading is not my main hobby, but I don’t let that discourage me. Cherish each other’s differences and uniqueness and further develop the relationship from there.
Avoid Comparing
There is no need to compare to see who makes the most money, has the best education, or lives the best lifestyle. You should be happy for your sibling’s latest achievement. Continue to encourage each other as you live your life to the fullest. My older brother earned an internship his freshman year but I didn’t. So instead of comparing myself to him and being upset, I congratulated him on his accomplishments. Even now, he still encourages me to do my best and never give up.
Let Go of Grudges
Holding a grudge against your sibling is completely unnecessary. There are like nasty infections. Grudges fester for years and can contaminate you and your sibling’s relationship. If you’re holding onto past hurts, let it go and start your healing process. On the flip side, if your sibling is angry with you, apologize and say that you’d like things to improve.
Whenever you’re mad at your sibling remember these things. They will help you improve your relationship so both of you can live a happy, healthy life.