You melt every time you see him. The thought of him talking to you gives you butterflies inside. In your heart you know he is right for you, but does he see you? Does he know who you are? If the answer is NO, then something needs to change. It’s time to get bold and get your man.
Women walk around everyday feeling an attraction for that certain someone. Whether you see him in class or walking around campus, he catches your eye within seconds.  But a lot of women are afraid to make the first move. Our society is so stuck on gender roles; dictating to men and women what they can and cannot do. Let’s switch it up a little.
#Shootyourshot2016 became a trending topic on social media as we entered the New Year. It was going down in the dms for some of my friends. They were taking a chance on their feelings and hoping for the best, but sometimes sliding in the direct messages is not always the way.
Guys are simple beings who just want a straightforward approach. Some women like to play mind games, they change how they feel or interact with a guy everyday trying to keep him interested. Ladies we may think this is cute, but guys don’t seem to. If you are planning on shooting your shot this year, follow these 3 steps for success.
#1 Be Confident
If you appear confident to a guy he will think you’re confident. Upon the first approach, walk up to him like you own the ground beneath your feet. Command his attention with you body language and eye contact. It will impress him to know that you are comfortable in your own body. He will notice. Trust me! But do not come across overly confident and run him away.
# 2 Be Yourself
Guys like women who are genuine and true to themself. If this guy is someone in your class or a friend then he already has an opinion about you based off of what he sees. When it comes time to make the first move, be yourself. Don’t go and change your whole outfit and throw on a bunch of makeup if that is not who you are. He will notice the sudden change. If you like to wear jeans, keeping wearing them. Spruce yourself up a little by maybe adding a cute blouse with the jeans or some popping jewelry. Don’t change because you think he will like you more. If he cannot accept you for you, then he isn’t for you.
#3 Make the first Move
Ladies this point is crucial. Making the first move is the foundation for what the future may hold between you and this lucky guy. Guys like girls who take initiative and go after what they want. Talk to him in class or ask to be study partners; start small so you can get to know him. Or you can go big or go home and ask him out on a date, maybe lunch or dinner. He will definitely know that you’re interested. If you don’t know how to make the first move, take interest in things that he likes such as going to the gym or watching sports. Show him that you want to get to know him.
This may sound like a lot, but it will all be worth it in the end. Go out there and get him before someone else does!